In this life there are many events that cannot be measured from our point of view as humans because there are some things that will turn into incidents that we don't take seriously but instead become a very serious disaster, just like people joking at first without caring about the consequences later. they know it's just a joke and it won't be complicated so that's why many people when joking don't think bad when the person will be offended because of that if we want to joke then we have to think twice whether it's really not going to happen anything later.
A life experience that has often happened in my daily life and of course because I have many friends, of course there are those who like to joke, even some of my friends like to joke, which makes me offended, not only me who is offended when my friend jokes, many of his other friends also offended if he is the one who jokes because his words make people sometimes dislike his existence, make our hearts uncomfortable when we hear it, and that's the reason I get offended when he jokes with me.
Joking becomes uncomfortable when I'm around him even I don't like when I go out with him with the reason of his jokes, maybe it sounds childish but still because I already feel uncomfortable with him whatever activities I do I don't like it when he's around me because there were a few incidents that really offended me and until now when i was with him i was just average because i don't like to overdo it with him for that reason.
One of my friends who likes to joke around when I'm out in a crowd and he jokes like it's okay and he just comes right in and says I'm an idiot, and it really pisses me off because he also tells his friends that my face is so black because I was taken late from the fried food so I was burnt and black which happened to me because of my parents' mistake because I was late taken out of the fried place. Try to imagine where my other friends were there, with a confident face he said something like that, of course I didn't accept it, but because I was already offended I couldn't stop myself from saying anything.
Some jokes always offend me and that's one of them. Indeed, a joke cannot be said carelessly without having to think about other people's feelings, and he has several times said that to me and there are even other sentences that make me dislike being friends with him, as I explained earlier that until now when sitting with friends the other one i don't like to talk to him much because i always remember his words must be bad if they come out of his mouth.
So the conclusion that can be drawn from my discussion this time is that joking is not always okay, before joking we have to think twice whether the person we are joking with likes our sentence or not because if we speak without thinking about other people's feelings then people it will not be appropriate to be around people, taking care of people's feelings is the main source in friendship bonds if you can't take care of other people's feelings, then it's better not to joke too much, laugh with reasonable things without involving excessive punishment.
Alright friends, maybe that's all I can convey, and I realize there are lots of spelling mistakes in my writing, therefore I apologize profusely because I wrote in my regional language, namely Indonesian. with the help of google to translate to english and that's all from me see you again in my next discussion, of course, in this amazing community.
About me
My full name is Edi Suryadi, many friends on hive platforms call my name Idayrus, I come from the country of Indonesia which is especially located in Aceh Province, I was born in 1997 until now I have completed my education in college with a bachelor's degree in Science Communication. I like interesting and unique things and I am also a photography and art lover and new things so on this beloved platform I will share about photography, art, traveling and other interesting things.
