My entry for the Hive Learners contest " W11E3 " | My Bullying Story When I Was a Teen

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Hello friends #hive everyone how are you I hope you are always fine

Greetings to all of us who have been in our beloved community today I am back in front of your eyes to share stories and experiences when I was bullied by some friends. First of all I would like to thank the Hive Learners community for giving me the opportunity to enter a very challenging contest this week.

As we know this week is the 11th week of the 2nd edition of the contest in this beloved community and in the last few weeks many have shown their writing skills and it really made me want to join like the others.

contest in this third edition about Bullying

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Daily life is inseparable from fun, every life of course nothing is always sweet sometimes on the sidelines of the fun of sitting with friends there are always friends who have thoughts of demeaning other friends, bullying fellow friends is very bad behavior because it can make insults somebody. worse situation. bonds of friendship in everyday groups.

Now talking again about bullying, when I was a child or still a teenager, I was bullied a lot from friends and it really depressed me in my life with friends, at that time I felt wherever I went it was always uncomfortable just with a friend who always interrupt my fun.

Actually at that time some of my friends were normal when they hung out with me but the cause was only one person so that other friends were affected so that bullying happened to me. One of my friends who likes to give bad perceptions so many of my friends in the group are bullying.

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Honestly at that time I thought of hitting a friend with a stick who bullied me, but I couldn't cope with all the friends in the group, considering that there were 6 people in one group and I was the seventh person. in Group. Thinking of hitting some of my friends with sticks, I changed my mindset to retaliate for what my friends did that affected my other friends.

So I looked for the weakness of my friend who likes to bully and after I tried to find the weakness of that friend until I found one weakness in him and while sitting hanging out with them again the friend who bullied me tried to bully me. again and immediately I replied to his words until I managed to reply to all attacks from him and I managed to make the person who bullied me back down and he felt the same way I felt too.

At that time I really felt on top and until now I rarely get bullied from friends, it started I got revenge on all my friends who like to bully me, and I really succeeded and went according to my wishes.

The way I deal with my bullying as a teenager is to look for the weaknesses of my friends who like to bully, that way I can adapt to them by responding to bullying every time they bully and I continue to maintain my mindset and that really helps me in adapt to the playgroup.

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Alright friends, maybe that's all I can tell about my story about bullying as a teenager, sorry if there are mistakes in my writing, for all friends, let's continue to follow the contest provided in the Hive Learners community every week. See you again in my next post.

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Special thanks:

@hive-learners
@bruno-kema

I would also like to invite my friends to participate in this contest:

@deimage
@waliphoto
@maksyam


NOTE : I write in Indonesian with the help of Google to translate to English



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Do you know the legal name of @themarkymark ???? It is needed to contact his local police station. Any information to his whereabouts would be much appreciated.

Thank you

as you said, surely everyone wants to beat up anyone who oppresses us savagely, but we are so weak that we can't do much other than cry and be alone

Wow, that was good story from you when you get bullied.
And yeah, bullied ruins anything, and bad for us.
Good story buddy. 👍

Bullying is very dangerous, especially during adolescence, this can cause a person's mentality to fall and can make the child afraid to see the world