A little change for precious moments

in #hive-15385026 days ago

Parents are the divine gift, and both father and mother play a very important role in the life of a child. It's the most precious moment for parents when a new baby comes into their life. During that time, it's very good to spend quality time with a newborn baby, which helps to make a strong bond with the baby. In my country, mothers receive maternity leave for 26 weeks, but there is no such facility for fathers. Today I am going to discuss about everything based on my country's situation. So it can be different from other countries.

I already said that the mother receives 26 weeks of maternity leave from her job. I think it's necessary, as the mother needs time to recover fully and needs proper rest. Maintaining health is important because it's related to the food of newborn babies, and breastfeeding is the primary source of it. So, considering the overall situation, 6 months is quite reasonable. But do you know that most of the mothers in my country are housewives? So for most mothers, it does not create any significant impact during the time of conceiving. So in my country, such a system isn't so effective for most of the family.

Let's talk about the father in such a situation. Fifteen to eighteen years ago, if someone asked me if there was any necessity for such kind of leave, I would say it wasn't necessary because, as well as I know, the father was not so concerned about taking care of the baby and the baby's mother. Usually, the baby's grandmother or aunt used to take care of their mother and their grandson. Fathers used to play a neutral role, but the situation changed, and now fathers are very concerned about their baby and their wife. Besides, they play a good role in supporting (mental support) the wife during the time of conceiving. But to earn, they need to go to work, and in that case, fathers can't support their wives well even if they want to.

After giving birth to a baby, mothers need to take enough rest, but it's not so easy for a mother to maintain it, especially in the first month, which I want to say is a sensitive period for a baby and mother both. Moreover, a newborn baby doesn't maintain any schedule😅, and for a mother, it's indeed difficult to rest unless someone takes care of the baby. Now fathers also understand it well, and they play a good role and help their wives, like helping with cooking, taking care of the baby, and so many other things. @gwajnberg played such a role, and I appreciate him for sharing it with us. At last, I believe that those are the most precious moments for a father, and they should not miss them. I am not married yet, but some of my cousin's babies made me feel special. Just imagine how special it is for a father. I think I need to wait for it unless it becomes my time.

So I think fathers also deserve a leave from offline work, at least for 2 months. It's very much possible to provide online service also in this digital world. In this way, the office work will not be hampered, and at home, he can fulfill his duty as a father. I just tried to find an easy way, and it's just providing service online, which was done during the time of the pandemic also.


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I love your idea about having the man to switch to online services. Being with the mother and child is a sensitive period, the father should not miss.

I also think that it's a good idea and that can help fathers to support his wife and enjoy the quality time.

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Both parents have a role to play in the upbringing of their children. It hurts a lot that father's are denied the privilege to bond with their Children at that tender age. I believe that very time the child needs both the parents. It's during that period that the child and the parents can bond very well. Unfortunately it's only mother that have that privilege, no wonder most kids are more free with their mothers than with their fathers.

It's true parents have a role to play the upbringing of their child but mother's role is somehow more than father because mother need to bear everything (physically and mentally). But it's responsibility of a father to support his wife in that time. Whatever, Father should not miss the special moment after the baby comes to the world also. They deserve it.
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The online services aspect you talked about is actually a very good idea, and I think it's something that companies should consider when thinking of implementing paternity leave. Considering what happened during COVID-19 when many people started working from home, such policy can also be used for fathers who just had a new child, so they can take paternity leave while also working from home

Hehe. I think most of the companies won't allow workers to leave for it. So I tried to find alternative and fortunately I find this way and I believe it's a very much possible thing for companies.
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I like your way to highlights the significance of spending quality time with a newborn baby, You perfectly emphasize the role of both parents in the child's life

I never experienced it but I can guess about it and I believe father also disturb to enjoy such kind of precious moments. Feeling good to know that you liked it.