Sometimes our lives... finances can become unrealistic and this is how we're unapologetically assumptive of money, its source, the possibilities that come with it, and how it makes it difficult to envisage the true nature of our reality. What do I mean? One of the reasons why some people are laid back in life is because how they've assumed the possibility of money creeping into their lives without them having to do anything.
One thing I know is that the heavens crown real-life effort, every decision, every penny, every intentional action towards ridding oneself from poverty counts in the struggle for financial freedom and this is because there's no way we can be unintentional towards money and hoping to hit Intentional financial milestones in life.
The Aspects Of ill lucks
There are times we have to be cognizant of our lives, the level we're supposed to have gotten to, and the consequences of not being there yet. This is different from making efforts and facing ill luck in life. Being aware that we're supposed to have a saving while earning is a conscious way to financially stay abreast, not having these thoughts at all, makes us unconscious people living in a world where we need conscious decisions to survive and thrive.
Life happens and most times we have to make it happen. What do I mean? It's not our fault that we're born, but because we're humans with a functional brains, we had no option but to live the life we're given, and this is why we go ahead to make our lives comfortable.
What brings these comfort?
Do we need them?
Money makes life comfortable and this is because we have needs, desires wants, and dreams irrespective of our financial conditions and because we're naturally inclined to always "want" there's the corresponding responsibility to always "seek" seeking involves, making attempts to look for means, which involves equipping oneself with value so that we can sell this value for money.
If you still don't understand that life requires creativity to thrive then are partially
inoperable. One of the things we have to do is to be partially operable in all aspects of life, else, we might be making decisions that require us to be responsible, but we aren't willing to be responsible, this is why it's important to understand that there are grey areas to our lives and finances that we have to diligently pay attention to.
The Grey Areas To Our Finances
This is because the biggest favor we can do for ourselves is to make sure we're financially conscious and realistic rather than being assumptive about money.
For example, I've always been hit by questions like "what if you mistakenly see one million dollars on the floor, what will you do?", Or "what will you do if hive hits $50?"
Firstly I think these are some of the most stupid questions ever because such things are not impossible but it might take everything, to be obtainable and the parameters that might make them obtainable are beyond our reach and we might not even be alive if these parameters are reached. people tend to be wildly assumptive about money but find it difficult to be assumptive when it comes to things like failure.
*As much as we think our pockets can be miraculously lined with money, there's also the possibility that life might happen and we'd end up broke and penniless or even worse
There's A Need
Now it's important to create a balance because being assumptive about money creates an unreality, it takes away the aspect of being intentional about hard work, and this is one of the reasons why people live and die dreaming about billions or millions they never made.
This is to say that life is not a dream, the moment we lose our consciousness, everything ends, hence we cannot live in dreams of a comfortable future while our actions and decisions aren't aligned with that future. For example, there are people whose aim in life is to look beautiful in other to attract rich husbands, and there are men who certify themselves with certain qualities to appeal to rich women.
To Knack For Innovativeness
Now, while I feel that this is one of the most foolish intentions ever, you have to admit that these intentions are creative and futuristic nonetheless. Money requires innovative tendencies, I've seen people who take up tech courses to swindle others of their hard-earned money, irrespective of the fact that this is evil, it's detailing, effortful, our lives, moralities are what draws a line and defines what's good money and what's bad money.
Irrespective of which is which, efforts is still needed. At the end of the day, assumptive people are always dreaming and never living. While it's good to envisage and assume, there's the aspect of making the reality we want a possibility by being intentional.
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