Traders: The Best And Worst Of My Experiences

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Everyday as we go about our daily activities, we meet cool and interesting people who become a part of our lives. The interesting thing about life is that the unexpected people make the best friends. As consumers, we meet different kinds of traders; whether it is the one that teaches us lessons by selling fake goods to us, or to the one that tries to rip us off our hard earned money, or just the cool and friendly ones with top-notch customer service, we have all come in contact with traders who has in one way taught us one thing or the other about good and services and about life in general. Today’s Hive learner’s prompt asks us to share our best and worst memories with a trader.

FROM STRANGER TO FRIEND

I remember that day like it happened yesterday. It was the day before I was to travel back to school. I needed a few toiletries, and after getting them at the market, I remembered I needed new pair slides. So, I went back into the market to buy new slides. My usual seller wasn’t around and since I was going the next day and wouldn’t have time to wait for him, I decided to try out another seller. Unlike the previous one, this one was a young guy in his late 20s. One thing that naturally draws me to trader is good customer service. He started talking to me like we’d known each other for years. He asked if I was thirsty and even offered to get me water, but I politely declined.

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I saw what I wanted - a black slides with tiny dots of whites. I transferred the money to his account, and with a smile on my face, I walked out of his shop. The next day, I traveled back to school. About 3 weeks later, I stepped out to get a new charger. Most of the sellers at my school do not accept cash. Meaning, you have to make bank transfers for every purchase. Unfortunately, that day, the sun was scorching and it was as if a thousand red ants were feasting on my body. I just wanted to get everything done with so I’d return back to my hostel. I was in such a rush that when I bought the charger and wanted to make the transfer, I sent the money to the wrong account- the slide seller’s account. It was not entirely my fault. The scorching sun contributed to it, plus, they had the same surname.

Immediately, I called the slides guy and told him of the situation. He didn’t deny it, instead he asserted that he indeed got the transfer, but I’d have to do a video call with him and introduce myself properly so he’d be sure that I’m not a scammer. I did as he asked, and immediately he saw my face, we started joking about the situation. After sending the money back, he adviced me not to make the mistake again because other people might not be nice enough to send it back. Not only did he exhibit good customer service, he’s also a pretty nice guy. Till today, we are still friends. Naturally, he became my slides plug.

REGRETS

On the other hand, there are traders we meet that we instantly wish we had never crossed paths with them. This incident happened 3 years ago. I needed an iPhone cord urgently, so I walked to the closest shop to buy it. My phone was dead, so I didn’t take it along. I bought the iPhone cord and rushed back to continue what I was doing. Lo and behold, after checking the new cord out, it didn’t work. I was so pissed and frustrated that I hurriedly rushed back to return it.

To my surprise, the seller claimed I allegedly spoilt the cord and that she won’t collect it back. I tried to explain to her that I had just bought the cord from her and that immediately I tested it and it didn’t work, I brought it back. She wasn’t even ready to listen to my explanation. In her words, “my charging port spoilt the charger.” She was raising her voice and constituting a nuisance, I was raised better than to start having a fight with an elderly woman. So, I dropped the cord on her desk and went to buy a new one. This isn’t the worst experience I’ve had with traders, but it is one I wouldn’t want to repeat itself.

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There are just some traders that will get on your nerves and just make you regret coming across them in the first place. I loved the way you approached situation with that woman no need to exchange words just move on.

Hello there, Juwon. Some traders can be very annoying.
Thanks for stopping by, Juwon.

You are very much welcome my brother

Hello, love.
Just as you’ve said, we get both good and bad experiences from the people we trade with daily. And the truth is, we most times don’t even see them coming and it just hits differently almost every time.

I really hope traders can be more patient with their customers and vice versa because sometimes the reaction from both sides are really selfish, all man for himself kind of attitude.

I’m glad you meant a vendor like that guy. Like he advised, not everyone will be that kind return your money. They might even claim to not know you at all. 😂

Thanks for sharing your experiences with us, Evol. 🌹

Hey there, Hopey. That's really true, love. We don’t see the experiences coming. They just hit us out of the blue.

I also hope traders can be patient with their customers. Sometimes you wonder if they plan that consume their goods by themselves.

Thanks for stopping by, my love.❤️

Do you get? 😂
Maybe their children will eat them. 😭🏃‍♀️‍➡️

It’s always a pleasure stopping by, love. 🥰

Hmm this is quite intriguing, we've met many traders and our encounters with them defers depending on their manners of approach.

It's good to know we've good traders who's willing to return money even when you're out of town and mistakenly send him money, some will deny seeing such.

And for the other woman case, that can be annoying, I think I've once experienced same and one thing it taught me is to make your I test the charger or cord at their store or look for another store that has means of vetting the effectiveness of their cord.

In trading we are required to be patient in dealing with customer brushes, of course sometimes this customer is unpredictable, some are selfish or not, from there we learn so that our customers still want to visit our place every day.

There people we meet on a daily basis which seems as if we have known them for a very long time. Some sellers will just handle their customers well that if you don't control yourself you will just buy more than you planned to just as in the case you mentioned first.

For the elderly woman, I won't be surprised she was just looking for a way to dispose that charge and you failed into the trap. All the same, applying self control is very important that shows we have better upbringing and understanding

Hello there, Hive Deb. Some sellers are really rude that you start to wonder if they plan to consume the products by themselves.

I'm glad I exercised self control in the woman’s case.

Thanks for stopping by.

How a trader treats customers matters a lot, nobody likes to be treated wrongly.

Indeed. The importance of good customer service cannot be overemphasized.
Thanks for stopping by.

Yup the guy was right some peopls are not nice. Same incident happend to my dad and then he get alot of money loss from his account. He told abother story to my father. And our parents are so innocent to get trapped. So becarefull for the next time.

WOW 😲. That guy is a very good guy. He sent your money back without even any argument. For some people they will tell you that God have answered their prayers and will never return the money.
Thanks for sharing

😂😂 the scorching of the sun added to the wrong transfer you made. 😂😂😂 Sorry dear

I was raised better than to start having a fight with an elderly woman.

Not where my money is concerned bro. I've noticed that some old peeps use this mentality to purposely bully young people and intimidate them into letting go of things. Like your case, that money you spent on the cord is as good as wasted. No be for me ooo.

As long as I can prove my case, I'm not leaving there without my money. If she likes, let her make noise and call everyone around. I'm not a thief, I legitimately bought the cord, she's the one that sold me rubbish.

I no longer give people a pass simply because of their age. Because those guys have shown me shege😤