A romantic relationship is a relationship between two people who are in love. a romantic relationship is based on a mutual love between two humans who are building an extraordinary love relationship. In a romantic relationship, we certainly go through a lot of problems and challenges. As for the challenge, it is usually solved with a romantic film, romantic novel, quotes, words of wisdom and so on. but have you ever experienced a problem in a romantic relationship and you are looking for a solution from reading, seeing and hearing the things I mentioned above? for me I've experienced it and I have some experiences after I practice it. how was the experience? so I will write about this in this edition. I hope that my writing in this edition will be of interest to all readers.
I am currently in a romantic relationship with a woman I know and we are both currently studying for a master's degree at one of the campuses in Indonesia. we both love each other and we live it in a very extraordinary way. why do i call it awesome? because we lived it full of problems and I solved the problem independently without looking at suggestions from romantic novels, romantic films, quotes and so on. why do I really avoid seeking advice and lessons from it? because I once almost ruined the relationship I built because of reading romance stories in novels written by other people. indeed this is contrary to some of the perceptions of friends. but this is what i have experienced myself.
Once when I was going through a bad phase with my partner and we had a big fight because of a problem that I took seriously and could ruin the relationship I was in. After we had a fight, I immediately read a romantic novel and read love quotes on social media so I could find a solution for the mistakes we made. but instead of providing a solution, our relationship was getting worse because I took the example told in the romantic novel. until finally I had to solve the problem independently with a cool head and seek opinions from wise people. from there my relationship got better and continues to improve as it is now.
So from what happened to me, I never again took the essence of a relationship that was told in a romance novel and film or other love quotes. because for me, the story that I experienced is not necessarily the same case as what they wrote and told. My story is a story that I build and I control my happiness and love problems. so I really avoid the love story that I build is controlled by the story of novels, romantic films and others. because I don't want my relationship to be damaged by other people's stories and the story is not necessarily real and not necessarily the same as what I live. I avoid it not because I hate it. However, I want my love relationship to run well and survive on my own, not controlled by the novels and romance films that I watch.
