Love should be enough.But is it? Love is an emotional thing. That demand every inch of you, the whole you. When you fall in love you can not escape.Once it is done, then it is done forever.Lets talk about our fictions. We love to live in a fictional world.In ideal world love is connection of our emotions,feelings, and it bound two people together by their emotions. And what we expect, the marriage and a happy life after loving each other.But is it? Is it enough?Love is necessary, We can say that this is the foundation for living a happy life, But reality is different from that.When two people decides to live a life together then alot of responsibilities comes with it. Not only love. His/her expensis. A happy life,good life. A good life,Where not every single wish but some wishes got the complete shape. We can not say that we love each other and bow i can live my whole life with him even he can not provide food or anything.
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For me this is not enough. Although we love to be someones love but prenup marriages are good may be. This gives us protocol. Some how she gets a legal agreement of finacial stability that if we get seperate or by any chance death does this. Then she'll be okay. Prenuptial is just a aproach to both parties to get benifit. It shows the transperancy and the honesty of the partner. Marriage is a partnership. Where we have to adjust with everything. What if someone ends with not adjusting? He or she decides not compromise then?
What our religion offers us
Our religion is so beautifull. It gives proper rights to a women. It provides proper safety for a women before marriage and after marriage.When a wonen gets married their is mandatory to give her Haq mahar that is dowry. This is a security for a women and also her right. Although islam did' nt mentioned the prenup marriages but it gives a finanicial stability to a women in the form of haq mahar. It is an amount that is given ti a women as a gift. The amount should be immidiate( mu'ajjal) or deferred( muwajjal). When a groom gave her bride mahar immidiately after nikkah then this is called Mu'ajjal. It means that she got the financial security. If the protion of mahar is given to ger lately then this calledMuwajjal. This happend only when they get divoreced or after husband's death. At some marriages they get the mahar after the nikah. Also when a women get divroce. She spents her time in iddahthis is a waiting period for a women. In this time she also gets financial help from his husband. So here it is our religion privide us so much protection even pernup is not mentioned. Although pernap is not haram in islam. If the intentions are cruel and greedy then it will be. But my mind stucks between both because we womens need financial stability, but when i get married and i and my husband both a stable financially then i'll never ask for it or sign for a pernup wedding.
