Life is full of surprises indeed, what we expect don't always come our way as expected and the things we don't expect or hope not to happen just somehow comes our way, both good and bad. It's why it's always my prayer that I be blessed with only the good things He has made possible to be available for us, and the strength to overcome when I'm faced with bad situations from another.
Humanity has a dual nature, the good and the bad, the kind and the wicked, the loved and the hated, the beautiful and the ugly, the rich and the poor... Duals in every sense and so, a wise person will try not to expect only one side of this duality from humanity like a good person expecting only good things to happen and vice versa. We must understand that we all, humans are different.
I've had my own fair share of experiencing both the bad and good side or beautiful and ugly side of humans. It's sad that people we expect to be good could turn out to be the bad ones but it's not what we can control, we just learn to not feel too hurt about it. I actually had a hard time to think of the two moments where someone unexpected did something good and bad to me.
To be more clear with the story, I'll share my most recent experiences with both situations and how the relationship is going after it happened. The good I never expected and from not just one person happened to me last three years. It was late at night, I was with a friend in my room when I felt so much pain that I couldn't even say what was wrong and minutes later, I was in a hospital.
How I got there is still what I can't be grateful enough for. My friend called neighbours to help and it would have been understandable if they had to do some other things that late but surprisingly, up to five of my neighbors showed up, two with cars to make the movement faster and I was taken to the hospital, they even put money together for any thing I needed to pay for.
I actually woke up feeling better to hear the story from my friend, it was so unexpected and I couldn't thank them enough, some didn't even let me see them to show my gratitude, as my friend said, they were just glad nothing worse happened and happy to have helped out. It was my first time at a hospital and they made it seem less of a big deal to go and come back feeling better.
For the bad that another has done to me that I never expected, I don't always get to feel bad about what another has done to me wrongly but there was this one time I lived with a girl who turned my friend automatically but she isn't who she acts as when she's with me. Noone is perfect but I expected her to tell me what's wrong and not talking about me with every other person.
When I found out she is the one spreading words about me that were not true, I felt so bad but she apologised seeing that I caught her and I didn't had any choice but to forgive her. It never happened again but that memory has been created which I don't feel good talking about. We are still friends if we ever meet in the future, that's how beautifully we went our separate ways.
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