I have always been the kind of person that keeps to his space, trying not to meddle in anyone's business no matter how big or small,but as time goes on I got to know that it is not one hundred percent ideal to just stay in your zone.sometimes one have to leave his comfort zone in other to achieve greatness.
Right after I graduated From primary school level,I have been this calm and cool person that avoids fight nor violence.
Before the outbreak of anything disagreement that leads to fight or strong quarrel I make sure I excuse myself. That's the reason most times I don't watch football talk Less argue about it.My life is not in for that.
There was these day myself and a close friend of mine got engaged in an argument about music.I was so sure about my facts, giving him possible scenarios but this friend of mine kept on countering the movement.The moment I noticed I was beginning to get frustrated I immediately let it sly and accepted he was right meanwhile he wasn't.Not till after days he came telling me I was right and also gave me facts of his own.
This related topic will make me share one of my weird matter settlement between my female best friend and a family brother of mine.This two people are close to me and means a lot to me but The two of them are in a relationship because I was the link to them both so automatically I am in the middle.
Living in between these two people gives me headache everyday because whenever they are on Good terms I won't be disturb neither Will I be carried along but whenever they have a mini disagreement then I get engagement From the two parties.
I have been in these situation and have been coping for a while until recently they brought a huge disagreement to my table to settle.I was confused and clueless on what to say to end the disagreement because I don't want to be in favour to any of them.
You all Know how relationship matters can be,well I did my best settling but my word wasn't the best and didn't suit both parties.
I acted like I didn't notice the two parties didn't go along with the order I gave ,but I knew for sure I passed a message.
Later after few days of distance,they came back together, coming to me to appreciate the word of wisdom.
Because their thought was I would encourage one and disregard the other but that was not the case.
I was happy to be there for them both up till date,and I pray for more wisdom to help these two people navigate through life.
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