What are you saying -"live in bondage"
Suppose you want to hike to mountains and family prevents you, you obey it?
Suppose you love someone and want to go with the flow, but your parents say no, your not mature to deal with relationship, you obey.
What are you saying????
So, you take the red pill in matrix and choose to be controled rather than be free, see and acknowledge truth and reach your potential.
Trust me, if you believe in something strongly, and have opposition, just blockc those negative forces and pursue your aspiration.
If I had not broken and done things like - go bald, drive car, carry 20 litre bottles, and buy Bitcoin, listening to others, I would have missed out on good stuff...
Believe in yyourself, have faith, introspect. We don't need rules... here's a song for you...