"Silence is true wisdom's best reply" this sentence did not come out of nowhere, but rather to reflect a severe reality and behavior in which many living among us are mastering, so they scatter harmful, humiliating and hurtful “killer” arrows, and they take this as a way of life, not caring about the feelings of others.
“A word” may leave an unforgettable trace in the depths of a person, and months and years may pass and he cannot get rid of its effects, causing him grief, sorrow and troubles that are difficult to overcome, and when it shines in his memory, he feels its pain as if it had just been said.
How many of us think even for a moment before uttering the word? And if it comes as a matter of blame, discussion, or deliberately conveying a message, before it afflicts the person in a “kill” and remains in his depths and breaks his heart, and is added to the stock of his painful memories.
Shouldn't we wait a little bit before we lash out with the swords of our hurtful words to others who may not have the skill of responding or self-defense, so they remain silent, and leave with scars that time may not erase and apology does not repair?
The word, with its cruelty, can take away all that is beautiful within us, Love, joy, and even feelings of safety and trust in others, to keep a person imprisoned for frustrations and negative feelings that may turn with time into hatred that is difficult to overcome.
A beautiful word with its spontaneity carries with it love and appreciation. It can draw optimism on the face of a person who loves life, making a difference in his present and future, while another negative and harmful word takes him back steps, loses his passion and reduces his confidence and faith in himself.
A high price you cause to others with a word you said perhaps without realizing its impact, and you could have thought about it before a day came and regretted it for a lifetime if your conscience woke up to what you caused to others, and you may try to return to whitewashing the blackness of your planting, but you do not find anyone who hears you or listens to you .
We need a long time to realize the meaning of social intelligence, which requires us only to have the skill of thinking and speaking, to put ourselves in the place of others, and not to lose their existence just for a passing word.
Be Nice
When you say your word, you do not lose anything, you say it and complete your way, and you may even forget what you said, but you do not realize what you did to the opposite party when he lives days and years remembering it and his heart squeezes the pain because of the insult, injustice, arrogance, disdain and grudge, or harsh and hurtful criticism. .
Unfortunately, we live today in a world where we lack good words, and hurtful words dominate the details of our lives. Our relationships, our opinions, our conversations, and even our harmful writings that we write without batting an eyelid, and we want to live in an environment far from everything that hurts our hearts and hurts our feelings, and to return to a good that remains in us, and to a mercy that dispels estrangement and oppression before it settles in us.
You may be prejudiced against yourself and bear a hurtful and harmful word from here and there, and you may skip it and go on your way, and time may forget you, so you forgive for leaving a person you thought was ignorant of you and does not know your insides or your sensitivity towards things, but you certainly will not be able to do that when you come from loved and closest People come to you, so you dig deep in your soul before your heart, and the days refuse to help you forget or transcend them!
