Tipping: A Moral Obligation or a Voluntary Gesture?

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The little things we do for people can go a long way to make their day. It may be a kind word, a smile, compliment or even a tip. Tipping is basically giving out money as a thank you for great services even though you’re not supposed to do that. Recently, there has been a surge in the number of restaurants and hotels in Ghana. Most people love to eat alone, go for dinner or hang out with their friends at bars or restaurant and it’s normal to see most of these places packed up, especially on weekends.

Even on random days, you’d find so many people spending time at such places. Knowing my people, I’ve come to learn that tipping isn’t something regular here in Ghana. You’d just know from the joy on a waiter or waitress’s face when you tip them that they don’t get tipped regularly . I’ve heard people say it’s their job and so why do they need to be tipped for something they’re already being payed for.

Honestly,most of these waiters, waitresses and bar tenders don’t earn much from the job they’re doing. They are literally up and running all day serving people only to payed a measly sum if money for all their hard. They receive no sort of allowance like other jobs get to enjoy which makes me sad. Tipping them might probably not add much to what they are already making but it’s a step towards helping the in a way.

Imagine being waiter at a huge restaurant and you are being tipped $5 per customer. Let’s even assumed you serve between 40 to 50 people a day. That’s actually a lot of money. In Ghana, I haven’t come across any restaurants that adds tips to the bills but I know it happen in other countries, especially when you’re in a group. You’re likely to pay between 20-25% of the total sum as tip when you have a bunch of people hanging out and given the number, it’s obvious you’d be attended to by more than one person.

Dealing with humans can be very difficult at times and with being a waiter or a waitress, it can even get a lot worse because some customers most at times act out of character and you’re expected to be the bigger person all the time. Personally, I think everyone of us should try their best tip anytime they go out to eat . Even if it’s not much, still give it as it will go a long way to help the other person. Sometimes, the person my not even need it, but it’s also a way to appreciate them for the services.

In recent times , I think Ghanaians are starting to adapt to the whole idea of tipping which I think is good. It goes a long way to encourage the waiter of waitress to serve better as it’s a form of motivation for them. Tipping is not bad, if you have the means , why not?


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Well from the waiter perspective, it's very nice but then it's just not them sticking it into their subconscious that they must be topped at every time rather it's them appreciating it whenever it comes around

You get? The entitlement ruins everything

Yeah

Sometimes I wonder how these waiters and waitresses survive because of the amount of money they earn in monthly intervals.

Most of them live off through the tips they get from customers because their salaries alone can't sustain them till the next payday.

I believe most of them have other jobs that earns them more.

Yeah!! If not they would stranded

It's good to tip people, no matter how small especially when they serve you well but most of us see it as a big deal

I guess.I just hope with time, we change.

I hope so too

Yea, tipping is good and it's a way to put smiles on the one receiving it but when it's turning into something you are expecting everything and if you don't see a tip, you'd stop rendering a good service, then, it's wrong.

I get you. It’s not by force to tip. It’s your job as a waiter to provide good services to your customers instead of feeling entitled.

Exactly.

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Tipping can be a tool for manipulation or appreciation depending on the motive of the giver. It's not bad to tip like you said but I think it's necessary to always have a good motive

You’re right. The thought counts a lot.

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Obviously there are innkeepers who live only on tips, because they have a lifetime dedicated to that service or they have learned it from a professional, and in those cases they are personnel specialized in customer service, people who are worthy of their income. I consider tips as something extra that must come from the good will of the person giving it, and that represents an act of gratitude for the attention received.

I agree with you. Tips should be from the heart and not forced.