Privacy. This is something that most parents do not give their children. some parents can be really over protective to the extent of wanting to know every single thing about their children. This is not actually bad but the approach is a good determinant of wether or not the child will open up to you as a parent.
Caring about someone deeply is a normal thing. almost every body have a particular person or a set of people they really care about. however, when this care goes into obsession, then it is not a good thing. being over protective is a on way trip to losing the person you care about. everything should have a limit.
We live in a generation where everyone wants to be independent. No body is real. Sheeps in wolf clothings walk around with beautiful suits, looking calm and gentle. Every one has passed through one pain or the other and the government is not making things any better. instead of solving the economic crisis, they are adding to it.
The question “how private should a person be?” is totally dependent on the “who,” and the “what.”
Privacy is to be granted to every one as every one needs a space. everyone has a skeleton in their closet. There are things that are better off keeping in secret and there are times when a person will just want their space.
When talking about privacy in the family, Parents should be wise enough to understand that their child is growing, as such, is no more the same person they use to help wipe their butt. They should give their children the room for self decision making. All they need to do is to provide a better guide and good support. Personally, I do not think that it is right to have a private space when it comes to the family. Family is everything. though sometimes it feels like our family are the blockage that stands between we and our success.
When things goes south, friends and well wishers may run away. however, your family will stand by you, protect you and make sure you are okay. based on this, i do not think there is need for privacy when it comes to family. A doctor will only attend to the patient that tells them their symptoms yaknow.
Parents on the other hand should create a friendly environment for their children. Do not be quick to scold and never be judgemental. Insults should be far from your lips. The love in your heart should always be shown. Respect their decisions and guide them where necessary. That way, they will learn to tell you every thing that is going on in their life. The best form of love is to let go.
Another place where Privacy should not reign is between couples. Whether dating or married. A relationship falls apart when there is secrecy. Always be open, talk about it. As a spouse, you should listen to the nonsense your partner has to say. Do not judge, do not give attitude but listen with a smile. That way, you your partner will never get tired of you, and you will know every thing about your spouse. Even if they want to hide it from you, they will not be able to because they are already used to telling you things and sharing things with you. Communication is power yaknow.
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