Hello Everyone in this amazing community
It's another great weekend, I hope you all are doing great,
We are in the month of Love, and valentine has been the talk of town,
Love is a beautiful thing, especially the kind of love between lovers.
The sweetest is the love that advanced to the extent of taking an oath or vow to stay together forever, sure is an awesome life time experience.
Whenever a couple decides to marry, there come together to make some decisions about the future, this decisions is mainly for planning ahead for the future, it is also known as premarital, or prenuptial agreement.
Prenuptial agreement are written contracts that couples enter into before getting married. Most of the time what the premarital agreement contains is the
Outline of rights and responsibilities that each partners must adhere to should in case of divorce,or death, this contract can also contain sharing of property, child responsibility and welfare. But how does this actually feel, to me I believe this type of thing is somehow not romantic and unfair in some instances where one partner has more than the other and then because of the prenups, the massive share of the property went to the other partner that has little to no much properties match the partners one.
For me if will feel so off, if before we marry you are all about prenups, I would feel you are after my properties or you have another motive for the actions being taken.
Well I think, prenups are just the necessary evil.
For me it is a lot of responsibility when two people are coming together to run their live together, to journey on a forever experience in marriage, they have to plan on building a life together, expectantly planning for their unborn kids and plans for each partner's family, that's actually a lot of responsibilities.
Agreement would also be very important whenever couples are going on a forever love journey, both of them would have to tolerate eachother no matter what, work hand in hand to manage each other attitude and character and behaviour,
Let's check the Holy Book the bible on what agreement in marriage truly means in the book of Amos 3:3.
This verse of the Bible clearly explains the concept of agreement between couples:
"Two cannot work together unless they agree."
There must be an agreement before couple finally being joined together in holy matrimony. So maybe premarital agreement is just parts of the agreement on the long run.
What are my final thoughts on it?
Honestly I am having mixed feelings about it, this is because I had a lot of story last years, where a lot of men lost their vital access to ladies because of Premarital agreements and court agreement in general. Although I also read of many smart people who found their way out of Marital scammers.
I even heard of a footballer who, before marriage signed and wrote all his properties and assets in control of his Account, the so called lover charge the football to get with the full aim of getting all the footballers assets and properties and get a lion share of it, but she was disappointed to find out she can't or don't have any properties to claim.
For me, if you are okay with it, you can always go for it. Here is my Response to #hl-w150e3.
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Thanks so much for reading though and I appreciate your lovely comments.
