My Stability and drawback.

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Who doesn't have strengths and weaknesses? When going for a job interview, you are asked about your strengths and weaknesses. These are questions asked to know the type of employee the organization is hiring.

We are all human beings and we can never have strength in every area likewise, we can never be weak too. Both works for every individual and we must recognize it so quickly so that we could improve or keep low what we wouldn't want people to know about us.

To some, their strength could be in Leadership skill. These set of people are capable of ordering and leading a group of people and would flow well with each person. They know how to deliver and respond to each need of the people and you'd wonder how they could report so effectively.

To some, their weakness could be in the area of not managing resources efficiently. This set of people do not know how to economize, and thereby, keep squandering and wasting resources and finances, even in an organization, and if care isn't taken, they may bring down a company or take it to bankruptcy.

For these kind of people, when they realize this weakness is leading them to ruin or destruction, they seek help immediately and find solutions, so they don't end up becoming objects of ridicule.



WHAT THEN ARE MY STRENGTHS AND WEAKNESS?

Of course, I am human, and I do have both in me. I think that makes me a normal human being. Right? 😌

For the strength part, I am always working on it daily so as not to reduce its potency, because that is something I wouldn't want to let off since that is what makes me possess a good habit and attitude.

For the weak part, I can identify them and I am always working on improving myself daily because this could downgrade my personality which I would never allow it happen. I will only be listing two of my strengths and weaknesses.



For my Strengths

I have an enduring spirit. Yes, you heard me right, don't you? 😉 This is something I am always proud of anywhere I go or find myself, even in the online world. Hardly would you see me giving up on something so easily unless I give my best in it. At least you would know when to give up on something when you realize you aren't going anywhere with it. There are just things you should let go of because they are uncontrollable.

I used to say something; “you have to let go of something you know you cannot control, else you might just keep circling with nothing to show for it.”

Since I started my writing journey, it wasn't easy as a newbie then because I thought I would start cashing out immediately. Despite the low earnings I received, there was one mantra I gave myself and till today, I can say it was my endurance that paved way for me, and here I am today, enjoying my harvest.

What is the mantra? “A little drop of water makes an ocean.” This is something I used to preach to whoever comes to me to teach them how to make money.

Another strength is that I forgive easily. Do you know the reason? Perhaps when I mention it, you will have a rethink, if probably you are this kind of person with a stone heart, and wouldn't forgive that person who has hurt you. I do believe that everyone is human and we have flesh in us. It is easy to make mistakes because we aren't perfect.

If God could forgive me every time I commit blunders or make mistakes, who am I not to forgive a fellow who keeps hurting me? This is something I am always proud of. I forgive easily and clear my heart from impurity. Remember, without a forgiving heart, you cannot receive anything from God.



For My Weaknesses


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I am always afraid of asking for help, especially financially. Hardly would you see me asking you to give me money or even lend me because I feel you might disappoint me. I don't ask for help in such aspect except for my siblings, who I know very well. Whenever I need money, and I ask my younger sister, she would direct me to one of our Aunts, but I would refuse because I don't want a situation someone will start talking to me anyhow. This is why I stay in my lane and wouldn't talk until I show the sign.

There was a time I needed money, I couldn't ask my siblings at all. I was managing the money with me, but I needed more to settle some things. That day, I got an alert from my Big sis and I was so surprised that I called her and I was like “Sis, you came at the right time when I needed it” and she asked why didn't I ask before now? I told her I couldn't because I thought she also needed to settle herself.

That is me! I believe people are going through different challenges and so, I do not want to add to their burdens but you wouldn't know if you do not try, right? I am so weak in that aspect.

I am always too emotional to the extent that I cry. I made a post about this yesterday on another platform, and how I was able to resolve it, and the technique worked. I get angry and this leads to me being emotional and would have tears filling up my eyes ready to fall if something or words triggers it. Just don't ask me what is wrong else you might end up consoling me till I know when to stop. I just can't keep myself from being too emotional when I am hurt or while watching a touching movie.

Someone said for a counsellor like me, I might end up crying with a client if I should listen to his or her story. Yes, I feel for people when I hear their stories. I feel sympathy and at the same time empathy for someone. This is my weakness which I got to manage some days ago.

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Hehehe. Princess and her weakness. I thought it would be something I can tamper with. 😂. I would have hold it tight till the day we meet. But since your weakness is not having the strength to seek for help financially, then you are still good to go because you are an individual who is ready to feed herself and remain financially okay.

😅😅 Who told you that? Anyway, this is why I am always trying my best to be content with what I have and be okay at any time except someone decides to help me.

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Very well, strength and weakness are two sides which make up a man. So we cant do without them.

Having an enduring spirit or perseverance is one key to succeed in anything you put your mind to. As long as you can dream it, they say, you can achieve it.

Mama, this life cant be lived alone. You need others to survive. So pls learn to ask for help when you need it. Nobody is four-eyed to know what you are thinking or need in your heart.😀

😅😅😅 I just don't like stressing others with my problem.... Maybe that is the way I see it in my own way. Though, as you have said, one cannot survive alone. Yoruba will say if you keep mute, that will be forever because if you do not speak out, no one will know what you are going through. Just like the scenario of my Sis, I narrated.
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😅😅 I just don't like stressing others with my problem.

Yes, I know. But sometimes you gotta stress th so that there would not be a bigger compulsory stress in the near future.

Aw...you also have a super soft tender heart that feels too much hehe... I can relate to that my dear Princess. My heart gets poked easily and I feel deeply for others too. I sit with them in their pain, I rise with their joy. It is a quality though that I would never like to lose. I feel it enables me to relate to a lot more people than if I didn't connect emotionally with them. So i personally think this is both a strength and challenge !LOLZ .... embrace it💗 !LUV

I easily get emotional too and that's one of my weaknesses.. I also don't like asking for help from others because I think that I can find other ways on my own..I don't want others to look down on me when asking for help..
My strength, it's not giving up no matter what struggles come..and having faith in Him 😊..
You are a strong lady, I know you always find ways to turn your weakness to your strength...

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My strength, it's not giving up no matter what struggles come..and having faith in Him 😊..

Exactly. I have always learned to trust and have faith in God to help me through.

I believe when we do not give up, we would thrive successfully at the end. Thanks so much for stopping by.

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Very interesting and I think it goes with the personality that you show us in this blockchain. I also don't like to ask for financial help and I have been in difficult situations, but I have always been able to get by. I like that of forgiving and our soul feels lighter when it is constantly practiced. You are adorable, delighted.

Yeah... that thing happens to most of us. We consider others and don't want to be a burden to them. But meanwhile they are thinking we are alright and just waiting for us to ask.
That's just human.
Thank you for sharing this with us.

The spirit of perseverance is a good one. It can ensures you survive and strive through in tough moments and forgiveness is not only good in the spiritual sense but also to our health. I just hope someday you'll be able to ask for assistance when you need one

Perhaps, I would ask and not keep things to myself. It's just that, my mind could give me different meanings to what I want to do or by asking help from people. So, I assume things in a weird manner 😂😂

Yeah, I know people like that

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I find this relatable. I see some of myself in you like asking for help or not wanting to bother others with my concerns for I don't want to add to their problems.

From what I have read about you so far that you have shared in read, you are a strong and independent woman.

This is wonderful. Understanding our strength and weaknesses help us a lot. Forgiving easily is indeed a strength, it takes a strong person to forgive easily.
I am still learning how to completely forgive a person. I also find it difficult to depend on others financially, my mind tells me that I don't know what the person is ongoing through financially also. This post just got me thinking about my strengths and weaknesses, I never actually gave it a thought before.

That's a nice strength you have, "to endure," I'm not sure I have that since I give up easily, but when it's something I don't want to give up, I'm very stubborn!

their weakness could be in the area of not managing resources efficiently.

I too have this weakness, it's one of the reasons I don't like working for other people, I'm not very bad at solo work, I can work around my personality, but when others need something and fast, I can break. (I guess that's INFP thing.)

I also don't like asking help, mainly because I know that giving is really hard and if I can't handle it myself, why would someone else want to handle it for me. I know that's not always true, but I still live by it. I do ask help from my family all the time though.


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