My parents are the best set of parents I can ever ask for. They aren't perfect, yet they have been playing their role excellently since I can remember; they are the perfect parent I wish to have again and again. All their efforts were obviously birthed from a place of love and not juat a responsibility to make my siblings and I comfortable and happy. I am happy I grew up knowing early what it means to be a parent, I don't have an experience but I have seen my parent do their job back to back and I can tell it's not easy.
With how much I know about my parents efforts, I will never get angry at them if I find out that I was adopted. All I would request is reason why I was adopted and who my biological parents are. They have and still doing what every good parent should do to themselves and to their children. I will be the most ungrateful human ever to walk on earth if I ever blame my parents for adopting me. They have been treating me like their own flesh and blood since I could remember; the sacrifices, self denial, passion, corrections, guidance, knowledge, wisdom, etc has made me who I am today.
I will be shocked if it were true that my parents are not my biological parents and my siblings do not share the same blood with me. But my love for them won't reduce, in fact it, my love for them will increase because I will be amazed that they love me so much even when they know that I am not their blood.
There is no need for pleading or forgiveness because I won't be sad or mad at them. All I need to do is think about how well I have been treated and taken care of, that's all that is needed for me to not get angry. The days when the food was not enough for everyone but they decided to share some of theirs, days when they had to break the bank so I get what I want or not be ashamed. Countless times when my older siblings had to let go of their want just to get what I want, rooting for me in private and in public, taking care of me when dad and mom were not around. There's a lot to think about that will never make me get angry at them.
What if my biological parents are doing well than my adopted parents ?. Going or not going back to my biological parents will depend on the reason(s) why I was adopted. If I will go back then I think it will be a great privilege and leverage to pay back my adopted parents for how much they have invested in my. I will definitely spoil them with all I can, get them those things I have always wanted to gift them, take them out to enjoy as much and as long as I can afford. It will even be a good way to make them eat the fruit of their labour at such old age
