Toxicity and i have never been friends for any reason since i became of age, and you will never for any reason find the word toxicity and i used together in a sentence, and please tell me why would a sane person like me want to maintain any manner of relationship that has to do with high level of toxicity, be it friendship, situationship or relationship. I have stayed in any relationship that has any level of toxicity, when I notice such ship is starting to get toxic or a bit extra-physical, I try my possible best to stay clear of such relationship…
Only a mentally unstable person or a cursed person would love toxicity of any kind, because i don’t know why any sane person would want to be involved in anything toxic or unhealthy. Omg, i trust myself in situations like this, i know what i can do and undo in toxic relationships, i don’t settle for any unhealthy, be it in friendships or relationships…
One of my rules as a person has always been to avoid any level of toxicity, no matter where it’s coming from, my auto reset settings in situations like that is to run very faraway from both the person involved and the ship itself, and that’s because i know toxicity is the beginning of relationship breakups, it starts from unnecessary arguments over irrelevant things, and from there it leads to harsh words and inhumane treatments, and from there it goes over to hitting and punching, and before you know it one person is landing at the hospital or healthcare facility, this happens mostly in a couple relationships and also when the level of toxicity in that relationship has gone from level 1 to level 10…
When your partner is already threatening to hit you with something, i mean anything and you know he is not joking about it, my dear run for your life, that is how toxicity builds up, it starts from harsh words and before you know it, it becomes a hitting and punching thing until damages are done, that’s toxicity for you…
One doesn’t pity a toxic partner oh, don’t because of love be a punching bag to anyone, if you keep tolerating it and it keeps going on and on, there is no day that person won’t land in an unhealthy situation…
The common reason why many people still don’t move an inch from a toxic relationship and a toxic partner is because of word called love. I am tired of how these people misinterpret love, someone who loves and care for you won’t be able to stand seeing in pain, not to talk more of him or her causing you the pain. Oh my my, that’s the height of toxicity…
Love and the belief that such person or group of persons would change after he or she has come to realize their mistake are two reasons why some people still choose to be with those who are bad to them, these people just only see the good in people, they believe every toxic person can change, but then they don’t know change doesn’t happen overnight, especially when it happens to be a toxic relationship and partner. The earlier you understand this, the better for you…
I see those who defend toxic partners or friends to be someone with mental issues, what excuse would you have for being toxic, even if you have been hurt by someone in the past, that doesn’t give you the liberty to treat others like trash, not even when they are blameless and innocent. What is toxic is unhealthy and unacceptable, there’s no other explanation to give to it, period…
In summary, it has been said since the beginning of time that you can’t advice anyone in a relationship, especially those are far too gone into the ship, most of them lost their sense of reasoning and understanding when they find a crazy love, even to the fact that they don’t even know what is toxic and unhealthy for them in that relationship, they just want to keep making excuses for their toxic partners because of the so called love…
In conclusion, no magic can be done in situations like this, the best way to reduce situations like this is let the involved parties face the consequences of not listening to the truth. The only way they will stay clear of such ships is only if they become an hospital victim 1-3 times, and the saying goes; experience sometimes is the best teacher. Let them be and let them learn to stay away the hard way…
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