I wonder sometimes looking at multiple characters in my around, mostly many of us run after different things, sometimes they match with each other, but in most cases, it doesn't match much. But at one point in life, our destination or our will in a specific matter is the same, and don't you exactly guess what the thing actually is? Well, I have seen and discussed with various types of people who have a different perspective about their life although putting everything in a corner I detect literally no one who doesn't want to be happy or doesn't want to lead a happy life.
There it doesn't matter too much what the profession of that character is. If you asked me a question like, what is the most precious thing in human life? preserving zero doubt in my mind, In one word, I would utter happiness is the most precious thing in human life. It is true that the thing makes you happy, but it might not be the same case for me or any other one. Its something not too easy to feel happy and sometimes you might feel good from any tiny things.
Well, from an incident those kinds of thoughts came to my mind. From a long period of time, I have had misty ideas about the matters of my happiness. I got upset by miniature things, I could not properly detect the secret things that worked behind my happiness. Let me share the incident with you which totally cleared the concepts of my happiness. In recent days, I have been pretty tense about life, in the meantime, I feel I need to know how to deal with my current situation in a proper way and that's why I started to spend some time with a group of people those who are pretty senior to me. Truly most of the time in my past I had been chilling with my friends. To tell the truth, We were chatting in a place to know each other's conditions.
This time I need to understand what should I do or what would the seniors do in my time. kinds of questions, I ask them or they willingly deliver their thoughts on that concept. A couple of days back, a senior member of the group, asked another what is the meaning of happiness to you. The first person is truly like a daredevilry, self-centered human bring. He goes with the flow of his mind, he doesn't truly obey the laws of his older. He has a concept like If you wanted to lead a life, you would have to be careless about others, would do what your soul tells you to do. Even his parents are not that satisfied with life, though He doesn't bother about those things.
And the other one is a forty five years old gentleman. He had a crush on someone at the time of his teenage. When he got an adult, he told the story of his love to his parents though they did not accept his words in the right way and eventually he sacrificed his love for his family. His first and foremost priority is his family and he feels If his parents are happy he will be happy. Still, he is leading a single life as he has not found somebody who can properly adjust to his family.
Those two incidents were quite shocking to me. In my words, I feel as you make things simple, getting happiness will be that much easy. And another point of getting happiness is adapting to any kind of situation and you need to be ready to accept the changes that's what I actually feel.
