Grandfather's education and life arranged in memory. A guide in difficult times of life

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There are many important people in our life. With whom we always want to spend our life. Our lives matter to them. There are many important people in this beautiful life of ours, from whom we have learned many things, and known many things. Their contribution is essential to making our beautiful world. There are people in our world who are dear to us, who have left this world long, far away. For whom you suffer so much, I have also suffered. Below is a beautiful description of someone in my life, whom I loved deeply and whose memory will remain forever in my heart. He was my grandfather, my closest person. My childhood friend never heard the word 'no' when it came to helping me when I needed something to help me grow up. No matter how hard, no matter how, he tried to bring it to me. He was my childhood friend, and playmate, who taught me so much about life. What things can be done, what things cannot be done, or what can be helped for people, what can not be helped—I have gained such experiences from him. These experiences I use to establish myself in the present. To me, these things are actually much better than trying to live my life the way my grandfather showed me. Grandpa was a very wise and compassionate man, and he was the crown jewel of our family.

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The times spent with Grandpa are the most precious memories of my life. Wherever I went, my grandfather stayed with me, or wherever my grandfather went, I followed him. If there was a dead somewhere or we were going to a place where I could go, I always tried to follow my grandfather. My grandfather used to take me to school, which has served as one of the greatest memories of my life. He always advised me on the right path and encouraged me in every aspect of life. If I was indecisive about something, I would just go to him and say, "Dad, I can't do this thing. How about doing this thing or how can I do it?" He used to explain to me so beautifully, which I could not express in words. I found solutions to my problems. The smile on his face and the depth of his eyes always gave me peace. When my grandfather looked at me, he would know what was wrong with me or what I needed. Looking at him, I could find a hint of what he was saying. Grandfather's smile and the beauty of his gaze were truly extraordinary.

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In our religion, there is no rule to use pictures of dead people, so I am not using the pictures so that my grandfather will not be harmed in the afterlife. I have pictures of my grandfather, but am not sharing them with you. Those memories, when I look at the pictures, represent a different kind of love, a different kind of pain, which cannot be expressed in words. I learned a lot from my grandfather. His most important teachings were honesty and morality. All the people of our area respected him a lot, respected him for his simplicity and his faith. People respected him a lot, and after his death,, many came and said he was a good man. He always said that being honest and ethical is the most important quality in life. I always tried to follow his words. He used to teach us never to do bad deeds, and always try to win people's hearts through good deeds. He taught me how to persevere in difficult situations and be compassionate towards others. I learned the word empathy from my grandfather. Dadu always taught us compassion. How to teach people, how to respect, how to love, and how to surrender oneself to people's danger, I learned everything from my grandfather, which is helping our life very beautifully.

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After my grandfather's death, I was deeply saddened. I have suffered more than I have ever suffered for anything else in my life. I was disoriented after losing Dadu. I never imagined to see such a day. I was in no way prepared to hear the news of Grandpa's death so soon. His absence created a huge void in my life. But over time, I learned how to fill that void. People will not stay in this world forever, people will leave the world one day. So now I am trying to forget Dadu by comforting myself. Remembering my grandfather as always doing what he taught me. I am trying to forget the troubles that I have faced and arrange a new life beautifully, which is very important in my life at present. My grandfather's memories and the values ​​he taught always inspire me. The lessons from his life have been helpful in every step of my life. I have shared with you the information learned from people. All are my grandfather's great wisdom and knowledge, which have helped change my life. I feel Dadu a lot in every step of my life. Too many memories haunt me.

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Whenever I am in a difficult situation, I think of Grandpa. Alas, if my grandfather were alive today, I could have solved this problem by getting a good suggestion from him. Alas, if my grandfather had lived, we might not have seen such a situation today. Such thoughts run through my mind. I learned a lot because of my grandfather. His philosophy of life helps me to move forward. He was an important person to change my life, due to which I understood everything in life beautifully. I am trying to use the old memories of my grandfather. My love and respect for Grandpa will never diminish, and his memory will forever be etched in my heart.

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Thank you all for your valuable time reading my blog

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Wow, i could see you share beautiful memories with your Grandfather. It's nice you maximize every moment with while he was alive.

Thank you very much. You have read my blog completely and gained a bit of understanding about my grandfather. Actually, I was very attached to my grandfather. I had a lot of love for my grandfather, which is truly indescribable in words.

Sorry dear for the lost of your grandfather. Death deals with us in such a way that it is not easy to be forgotten. Thanks to God because you have something that reminds you of your grandfather.
Thanks for sharing

Thank you very much. But I tried to face this sadness. And trying hard now. Your valuable opinion really inspires me a lot.

You had amazing times with your grandfather, your whole life revolved around him growing up, that's great, sorry about his death, death happens when we least expect it.

In fact, we cannot say what will lead to death in his life. Death is essential in everyone's life. But when the creator takes the known and good person in my life. It is actually much more difficult then. Thank you very much for your valuable feedback

It is a fact that we learn a lot from our elders which is still working in our lives and because of their words we are living a good life and we will always remember them.

Thank you very much. For sharing your valuable opinion with me. In fact, when people teach us about our choices. If they leave the world then we suffer a lot which cannot be forgotten in life.

Most welcome dear.

It’s always our grandparents who pamper us the most. It’s really a great feeling of knowing your grandparents and bonding with them. All they want at their old age is to spend time with their grandkids.
I’m really sorry for your loss, may Allah grant him Jannah. Ameen.

Thank you very much. For sharing your valuable opinion with me. Actually I miss my grandfather a lot. Love for my grandfather is essential. Thanks for your comments.

You’re most welcome