Good day all
Believe everyone is doing fine.
Come across this contest and i decide to join, having experience fear in my life which i want to share with you all.
Fear is a feeling of weakness, feeling of not being enough, feeling of failing all this negative feelings comes together and form fear in our lives with stands as an obstacles against our future and against achieving our desires goals.
Allowing fear to control is the worst nightmare anyone could experience.
In all our lives we should never allow fear to tie us down and make us have low self-esteem.
Feed your minds with words of strong and positive words
I know its not easy to conquer fear but you shouldn't be empowered by it, you are too strong to give in for fear, you ate too strong to allow fear play tricks on you, you are too strong to allow fear wins. You have to fight it with everything in you and with every strength you got.
My fear for higher institution (university)
Going to secondary school wasn't a big deal for me as rules and regulations was there to abide and very compulsory to follow and also was a school uniform. Being taught in terms and words you will understand. I graduated from secondary and this means moving higher and next to university.
I had this fear of university in me that no one knows about, i keep it to myself and its always eat me up and seems to be increasing everyday.
I heard a lot about life in the universities, how difficult it is to pass exams. If you can't build your CGPA you will be sent away from the school, if you are got in any form of examination malpractice you fill malpractice form and you are gone, how stressful lecturers can be, a lots of assignments and textbooks to buy and read, sorting or pay in kind and many more this got me scared and i know it's because of this fear i failed my first JAMB exams and i had to stay for another year to write JAMB again.
This one year i spent time fighting and struggling with fear.
Negative thoughts and discouragement the fear forms/build in my head, each day i keep telling myself "i can do it".
Others did it and yes i will survive in the university, i keep renewing my mind and thoughts with this words and its grow to the point of accepting it and i become positive.
On May 2021 i sat for JAMB and i pass.
On September 2022 i was given admission into the university of Uyo to study Business Management for 4 years.
Its normal to feel fear but its adnormal when you allow it to empower you and bring you down to your lowest.
My dear you are too strong to be empowered by fear, when you grow your mind to this knowledge then you will be able to fight and conquer your fear.
This is how i conquer my fear.
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