Hello guys, today I'm going to be discussing about this topic which i feel most of us need so much. Our life as a human is made up of different circumstances which sometimes might warrant us to behave in a way we do not expect or probably act in an abnormal we. This stuffs are bound to happen and there are sure things that will eventually happens to us being a human. What I only suggest to us all is to be yourself no matter what might go wrong..
In the process of being oneself, you have a lot of commitments which you have to do that will truly show that you are really yourself.. You don't want to get into a problem or a relationship stress and then want that to weigh you that or make you become a beast, you just need to work on being a better version of yourself and that's all..
There are some ways which one can do this and be a better person which I will be sharing a little idea of mine with you all.
Some ways to be yourself;
1 . Love yourself.
In what ever you do as a human, you must first be a priority to yourself because you can never love anyone than you love yourself.. In the process of loving yourself, you get to love others too which means you love those that are very special and paramount to you.. when you love yourself, then you can be able to attach that love to other people also..
2 . Always focus on developing yourself;
It is said that no one wants to associate themselves with someone that's doesn't have a future or a better plans for themselves.. when you strive and work on building yourself, then you will be able to attract many people to yourself because when you become successful in life, men will run after you.. Never get bother about you not having friends or not being able to mingle with people. Focus more on your development and let that speak of your quality to people not you forcing it to happen.
3 . Do what makes you happy;
Most of the time, while trying to please people, we sometimes go out of our ways which is not always good for us.. sometimes, when people see things like this, they tend to act on it there seeing this as our weakness not knowing it is because what makes us happy.. No matter what goes wrong, always ensure you do what pleases you and make you happy..
In all, Always be yourself no matter the circumstances. You can never please everyone and no can never fit into everyone's earth at the same time. Play safe and be wise.