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This world is so uncertain. Here anything can happen at any time. Things may not go the way we think. Wars are erupted suddenly and then ceased with same prompt when desired to. Foes may become friends and friends may become enemies. Nothing is predictable. If any there is anything predictable, it will not take much time to punpredictability to induce into it. Same unpredictability ranges to experiences with people.
Life encounters us with different people. Som experiences are pleasant while other may be sombering and distressing. People leave deep inscription on our personality and we a greatly influenced by them. Being a human, we keep feelings and cognition. The experiences alter our mood and mental health.
It is said that if you want to learn lesson,you must go out and interact more and more. You will face varuety of people each with different personality mindset and story and the behaviour of each person will be the reflection of his mindset.
Life is so uncertain and unpredicting. Here , though , we try to but cannot judge people by their ostensible look. The real version of them can be known once we communicate with then and spend time with them. It is not necessart that those who look gullible are actually innocuous and ostensible harsh look of someone does not make him bad too.
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A bitter experience :
The duty of public servant is to serve people not to rule over them. They are paid to serve pepple. I have a bitter experience with one of such servent. A provist is authority who deals with hostels administration in universities. All hostel related matters fall under prerogative of provost section. The provision of all basic facilities is the duty of provost. In my university time, I faced an issue in hostel. In the age of digital progression,there was no internet connectivity in hostel. Along with that some sanitation problems were also waiting for heed of administration.
I wrote an application and took signs from many hostellites in their consent and forwarded that application to provost section. I waited for a week but there was no response. I then thought to meet provost officer directly. When I entered his office,ge furrowed and his attitude was absolutely telling that he was not interested in meeting me or paying heed to the application(obviously it might have reduced his corruption amount).
When I complained about every thing, he advised me to simply leave the hostel instead of solving the problems due to whom students were suffering. He was rude and relentless having no empathy for the students. Such an attituted was so intolerable for me and I was disappointed by such a bad behaviour.
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A pleasant experience:
It happened when I was in capital for my intership. Instead of residing in any hostel , I rented out a one room appartment. The landlord was sweet as honey. Instead of demanding humungous rent, he asked for a mediocre one. I turned very suspicious first because usually those who pretend sweet stab you in back. He was not agumentative and provided me with everything with ease. His behaviour was very affectionate and kind.
As I have told,intially I was sceptical of him. His sweet behaviour was not digestable for me. But the more , I spent time with him, more I knew that this is not his deceit but true personality of him. He shared with his experience of that city . His meek and kind behaviour won my heart and even after passage of many years,he is still in mind with good memories.
Conclusion:
Life affects us in many ways Sometimes in the form of circumstances while sometimes through people, it tests our temprament. An intelligent person instead of getting disheartened learns from bad experiences and cherush the good ones to inhale the positive spirit from them.
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