You Can't Buy Real Feelings

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We know that today money is considered everything. People keep their relations seeing the money, property, bank and balance. And they think that if they have money then they have everything and they can get whatever they want.


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No doubt we have become dependent upon money and it has humiliated us in each way. We need money to wear. We need money to eat. And eating is the basic need and this need is also fulfilled by money. But still there are things which we can't buy with money. These are our loved ones our parents, our family members, lover, and children.


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Let me define the term love which I understand and feel. Love is a deep and unique feeling full of affectionate emotions which are produced irrespective of any greed. This is produced with some natural attraction and it is an autonomous feeling from which we cannot restrain ourselves and we are unable to hide it from others. Whenever you are in love there is a sweet smile and happiness on your face. There is an inside peace, a constant smile, and charm on your face. There is deepness in your eyes and your eyes are always seeking your love everywhere. You are always thinking about that special person wherever you are and whatever the condition is going on. So in my opinion these are a few feelings which are the signs of love and coincidences are another amazing and astonishing things which happen most of the time and these make both the lovers more close to each other.

Now come to the point if we can buy love with money or not. So as I have stated earlier that love is a unique feeling and as far as I know we cannot buy love. Money cannot buy love. Because it is a connection of the feelings of two people who comply with each other. We can get a person with money but not love and feelings. Love is the most costly thing in the whole world but its cost is not money. There are a lot of examples in the whole world that two people are in love with each other but their standards do not match with each other. It has also been seen that poor people who love each other are spending their life full of happiness but sometimes it has been seen that richest people are deprived of love and can't feel this sweet feeling. It means the richest person cannot buy love with money and he is the most poor person.


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Love is not for sale and we cannot get it forcefully. One can say that when we have to give some gifts to our loved ones then we have a need for money and without this we cannot buy it, and we will not be able to make our special person happy. But let me clear this point that gifts worth is not counted in love but the heartiness is counted. The care and charm of the gift giver is seen with how much love and respect one has bought the gift to give.

I have many examples, a person giving a costly gift to his lover and in return the person gives her girlfriend just chocolate. And let me tell you that girl gave his boyfriend an apple iPhone, but when that man gave her a chocolate she didn't mind even enjoying having it and hugged his boyfriend and looked at his gift with full of affection and fascinating eyes. You will not believe she kissed that chocolate and took it full of happiness.


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I have my own example and you will be surprised to know that I am also in this feeling but I haven't bought my love with money. I met her accidentally and I didn't know about her but I also don't know when and where it started that we fell in love with each other. I should not say but I want to say that she is more stable than me, but you will be surprised to know that it has never become a hurdle. And we haven't discussed it ever. But still she loves me beyond the limits and gives me more costly gifts. I don't want to explain it more because she reads my posts and she will be angry at me and I am sure from this line which I have mentioned she will become angry but I am always ready to persuade my love 💞.



So guys now I think it is clear that money is not everything and we cannot buy love with money.



Now I want to discuss those things which can buy love for you, so these are given below:

  • Respect: We know that everyone wants respect, and it is the foremost thing from which love is initiated.

  • Care: Everyone needs care, so if you want to get the love of someone then always try your best to take care of your favourite person. Ask about the daily routines, ask if your favourite person has taken breakfast, lunch, or dinner. Consult the health conditions and provide your presence if there is a need for any help.

  • Possession: The most important thing is that if you are possessive then you can get. So always be possessive, always show your love, talk in a polite manner as compared to others. Try to realize your favourite person that you love him or her. Do the tasks which he or she wants to do, then the feelings will become more strong and the other person will start thinking about you, will think and miss you whenever you are not available.



So these are the basic things which can buy love for you so invest your care and possession to buy your love because these are the only things which can buy real love for you.



Yours: @uop



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Love is just a confusing phenomenon, you can do all these and the love would not even be reciprocated. It is not really easy, but then what in life is truly easy?
Thank you for sharing this with us.

yea love can't be bought, and no gift is small when one is in love because we are not after their gift but the person himself...

Hey @burlarj good to see you here and exactly you have understood my point love is not for sale and no need of gifts for sustaining love as it depends upon the care and love.

And I will be joining you soon in element. I am trying to buy a laptop so I will be soon there.

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True my friend, money can't afford love but respect, care and lastly the possession will get it. Money only makes it smoother but it doesn't give it to us . Thanks for sharing this with us