Don't Give Up Then You Can't Fail
Even if you lose along the way a few times
Losing is not the same as failing
A loss is a lesson and will happen at some point in life in many situations, it is an experience that can help you improve later it can happen many times but is not the end.
If you fail that is a choice most people have made in their journey to end something as unsuccessful.
However both have lessons should you care to learn them.
Not giving up will ensure there is no end so you can not fail if you do not give up instead reagardless if it is a lose or fail just don't quit learn the lessons and improve.
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Be Nice To People
We live in an extremely stressful time and it is easy for people to think they have failed in life and become lonely in it.
This can happen regardless of how much they have in life to be grateful for because they don't see it through the cloud of despair all around them.
It is a really lonely place for people to be because regardless of the amount of people around them they don't feel like anyone understands.
Many people have been in that dark place in their life where they feel like it is all hopeless and so can relate.
It is tough to watch people go down this route, to listen to the hurt and despair in their lives as well as the fact they just want to end it all.
How To Help?
To help people in this situation we must listen to them and don't brush things off just because you don't think it is a big deal.
Offer helpful solutions but understand they may not be ready at the time and even if they shoot down all your solutions, remember sometimes it is OK to just let it go.
You can always bring a solution up again another time when they are more accepting and don't be pushy or combative also try not to sound or act frustrated with them.
Be consistent and practical in your support
Remind them of things that are going well in their lives, remind them of the people that have been there for them in the past and present.
Let them know all the positive things about themselves and the world around them.
Try and keep them busy don't let them wollow in the misery often people need to just be active doing things they enjoy even if they are not feeling it or wanting to at the time.
The more purpose people find and apply time to then the less likely they will live in their heads with the wrong thinking.
Correct them when they say things that are not true but in a way that displays compassion and support.
Try and use a softer voice when talking to people in this situation as it can calm down emotional outbursts but don't talk to adults like they are children as this can come across as condescending and arrogant.
Change or put a positive spin in on conversations that seem to be going in a dark self pity depressing way.
Be positive yourself around them, give them compliments about themselves and celebrate their achievements no matter how small the achievement especially if they have not been doing well.
This will build their confidence and make them feel good about their progress and current situation.
Involve them in things by saying "can you help me a moment" then thank them after the task, this will give the person a sense of being needed and accomplishment.
Putting in an effort to just be a little nicer to people and supporting them through life will create a much better environment for all.
Personally
I have been having a tough time of it lately with lots of personal battles, also technical issues basically cutting me off from being on Hive so i could not be on as much as i would have liked as well as dealing with some intense family situations.
There has been a lot piling on us this year, one issue after another but we will just keep pushing forward and staying positive about the future.
We will also continue to help people along the way whenever we can.
People around the world seem to be dealing with a lot of emotional, mental and financial issues. Along with having to deal with the physical and medical issues as well that has been happening to people.
A problem shared is a problem halved
If you are strugglling in anyway don't suffer alone talk to someone you will be surprised how many people are willing to support you through tough times.
You may feel alone but you are not and communication with those around you can help you start down a better path.
Tough times never last tough people do
If you see or think people maybe struggling, check in on them, support them and help them the best you can, you may save a life or 2.
Sometimes offering people help is all that is needed to help them move in confidence and solve the problem or issue themselves.
A little bit of kindness can go a long way.
If you can help people in their time of need in your community you improve and strengthen the relationships in that community. When you build strong relationships in your community you are increasing the success of the community and you are helping everyone in the community thrive together.
Mental health issues is something that can effect everyone no one is immune.
There are many things we can do to prevent issues which is the best way to treat any illness.
Openly and honestly communicate with someone you trust about your mental state. It is good to have people you can talk about things that stress and worry about in your life.
Eat the right foods there are many that can help the brain.
Avacodos, Nuts, Oily Fish, Leafy Greens, Sage, Broccoli, Seeds, Blueberries,
Blackcurrants, Tomatoes, Eggs, and Wholegrains
Get regular physical exercise it is likely if you are in good physical health you are more likely going to be in a better mental state as well.
Exercise is known to help keep your brain sharp.
Everything has a ripple effect good or bad so it is important there is as many good ripple effects occuring as possible within your community.
We Are Alive Tribe Community created by @flaxz Erik Gustafsson
Glad to be back, for goals and a plan i intend to just stick to getting back on track then continuing as planned to continue to reward people for their activity in the community.
Got back to posting yesterday but only had the time for the one post for @heartbeatonhive but at least we are back now and able to continue progressing.
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