When The Academic Schedules Break Your Dream

in #hive-1553733 days ago

The holidays that I enjoy during my study in China are always on fixed dates except for the Chinese New Year holidays, which vary one week almost every year. But in the case of other holidays, I get the same days of the year. If I tell you about the two longest holidays of two weeks I get every year, they are the Chinese New Year and the Summer Vacations. The Chinese New Year holidays usually last from the last week of January to the first half of February, which is changed every year as it is a kind of lunar cycle-dependent system.

The summer vacation is a constant one that has some fixed days of the year as the semesters start and end within a fixed period of time. So, every year, my summer vacation consists of the last week of July and the first week of August. So, these 14 days of holidays are fixed in my yearly schedule. Though I am free to visit my country during this time, problems arise with my wife's academic schedule as she is a student, and her university has a different yearly schedule that creates a lot of trouble for us.

The most common problem that we have been facing regarding my wife's final exams is that they are scheduled when I get my holidays, or sometimes the new semester starts when my holidays start. And so, we are unable to make some good travel to some distance except some tight schedules to visit our village home where our parents live as we are currently staying in Dhaka City. And our homes are very far from the city, it takes 6 hours to get to my home and on the other hand it takes 4 hours to get to my wife's home.

This time, my wife still has her final exam, but she will finish her exam tomorrow as with her last exam, and we will have a couple of days free from her tight schedule, and we can have some relaxing days to visit some relatives and places to spend some good time without any trouble. On my last visit, I did not visit my wife's home as we didn't have enough time to maintain her academic schedule. So, this time, we will have enough time to visit my wife's hometown, and hopefully, we will visit some places there.

The second and the most heart-breaking incident is about the holidays, which are always part of the normal work schedules in Bangladesh. In Bangladesh, we have two Eids as the largest celebration, where my friends and almost all of the people of the country visit their homes and parents, which makes the celebration so special. We can all meet with each other during this period, but unfortunately, I couldn't manage the holidays during this celebration season to meet all of my relatives and friends at home as I get my holidays at other times than the Eid celebrations.

For the last four years, I have not celebrated Eid, and I feel very homesick during that time as the holidays are not available at that time of the year. I have a very strict holiday season with limited scope to make it flexible according to the Eid celebration in my home country. When my family members and my friends meet during this holiday season, they always miss me too much, and I also miss them badly. I hope I will get the opportunity to celebrate Eid with my friends and family very soon.

The third thing is that ticket prices during these holidays are often excessively high. As of this time, China has experienced billions of people moving throughout the country, and often, the price of the ticket skyrockets. Especially if the plane has any transit in some cities inside China, then the ticket price during this time increases significantly. However, the direct flights from Beijing to Dhaka are not effective, and the pressure from international students often increases, so the ticket price is often affected by such things.

These are my random thoughts regarding my unfavorable academic schedules and holiday routine. If you have any questions, please let me know in the comments, and I will try my best to answer them.

Thanks a lot for your time and attention. I will catch up with you at the next one.
Wish you a great day!

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MD AL MAHADI HASAN Welcome to Mahadi's small corner in the Hive Community from Bangladesh. He is a Ph.D. student working at a research institute in China. He has visited many destinations near Beijing, climbed up the Great Wall and mountains, tried new and exotic dishes here, tried skiing and many other events, and explored his country. He wants to explore the rest of the world in the future. As a crypto enthusiast, he has the hobby of learning about Blockchains, Cryptos, and their fascinating applications in the real world. He loves learning new things and tries to enjoy his life to the full. If you like his content, don't forget to upvote and leave a comment to show some love for him as a learner in the blogging sphere. You can also reblog his post if you want to. Also, don't forget to follow him regularly to be updated on his latest posts about his life and thoughts, including daily life and some Blockchain games such as Splinterlands.

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Here in Thailand, everything is also ready to receive people from China - it will be impossible to order a taxi and not rent accommodation on the nearby islands)) But I still like celebrating the Chinese New Year!
!BEER

Yeah, it is the largest celebrationnin the world, I was watching video where the Great Wall is totally with the immense presaure and I had many experiences about that. I have also enjoyed the Chinese New Year celebration in Shanghai where I saw a sea of people on the Nanjing Street and near the Bund. I also love that vibes. Thanks for your comment. Have a nice day.

The summer vacation is a constant one that has some fixed days of the year as the semesters start and end within a fixed period of time. So, every year, my summer vacation consists of the last week of July and the first week of August. So, these 14 days of holidays are fixed in my yearly schedule. Though I am free to visit my country during this time, problems arise with my wife's academic schedule as she is a student, and her university has a different yearly schedule that creates a lot of trouble for us.

Dear @tanzil2024 !
Hassan!
I'm curious about how you currently earn your living! If you feel that my questions are rude, you don't have to answer them!😅

It’s okay my dear. I am enjoying my scholarship that covers all the cost of study and I get a monthly stipend that is sufficient to support my family in Bangladesh as living cost in Bangladesh is very cheap. Also, I don't need to pay a lot for my dormitory as I am savinng money by not renting an apatment in Beijing. I hope the information provide some info regarding yout curiosity. Thanks for your comment.

Hassan!
I guess you were not allowed to go to your country during your 14 day vacation!

I wonder how you will spend your time in China during your 14-day vacation!

Don no batt!

I am always free to do whatever I want to during my holidays and I can go wherever I want to go.