Being a man.

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Those that have met him know but none could freely help because of the symbol he possesses.

"He is a man." They'll say. "Therefore, it is his duty to provide, to lift the burden alone because that's what real men do."

No one needs to care much about him because he ought to be a man. His feelings are meant to be tamed and he should be more logical than emotional. That's how things should be done.

As he moves around each day working in a furnace or doing a menial job on a hot day, no one sees him. Even with a shoe, white shirt, tie and black coat on him as he holds on to an envelope in search of a job, no one notices him, or maybe they do but don't care at all. Still, he never gives up. He knows well the responsibility he has to shoulder and he has to do them with pride. Those thoughts keep him motivated each day as he goes hustling in the bustling city without rest.

"Man must survive."

All alone with his thoughts, he'd work day and night for the family he has now and the one he has to bring forth to the world. Memories of his life are always filled with work and work like a robot with no feeling or pain. Whatever he goes through in life molds him and may even perfect him in some ways.

Truly, being a man isn't an easy job. This is why it is necessary to appreciate the men in your lives. Teach them how to love by loving them first and let their memories be filled with something they'd not only be proud of but also bring out the emotion in them.

Do all these for them so that when they get old and all alone in their thoughts with their hands on their cheek on a gloomy day, they can look back to those good old times, smile and be glad they are men.


What do you see?
I see an old man in a black and white picture wearing a cap and a coat as his hands carefully rests on his cheek.

What do you feel?
I can feel his emotions because I have been there too. Those eyes, unmoving, are lost in thoughts of the world and more.


This is my response to Freewriters picture prompt.


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Still yours truly,
Balikis.

Thanks for reading.

Peace be unto those who crave it and more to those who chase it away.

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I try to remember this kind of thing as my father ages ... it does make a positive difference as the world just sees an old man, but he sees being himself and being loved and appreciated and supported. It does make a difference!

Yes. It does make a difference. It makes a very big one. Thanks for reading.

I loved your writing! Excellent reflection on the heavy burden it can be to be the sole breadwinner in the home. Good luck in the contest @balikis95 🤗🤗.

Thank you. I am glad you liked it. Thanks for stopping by

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Being a man is a big responsibility. Very nice write up.

Yeah, it sure is.

Oh wow! Detailed it is girl❤❤❤

This is great, being a man is not an easy task and they deserve a lot of accolades. Your writing is superb ❤

Yes, they do. Thank you

Truly, being a man isn't an easy job.

Rightly said! Those are some powerful words.

Thank you

Being a man might not be easy to some but carrying that burden alone? Try to be a woman men and you wish you were a man.

Thanks for joining and sharing
@wakeupkitty

Nothing is easy for anyone. We all have our burdens, worries and healing

Men dey suffer sha😞

This man especially 😔
Help a man (me) smile today with a sum of 5,000 dreem😀🌚🤭

Been long I've been on your post though...

How've you been?

It is not easy jare.

🤣🤣🤣 who are me? Go and ask those dreem ogas and send me small sef when they give you.

Hehe, yeah. I have been well and you?

Na you be the dreem oga na😞😭

🤣🤣🤣 who de lie for you like this? Fear the person ooo

A very big shoutout to all the men out there striving to provide for their families. They are the real MVPs.

Came in from dreemport.

A big shout out to them ooo.

Thanks for stopping by dreemer.

Na only me know wetin I see when I say in my next life, I still want to be a woman. We do not have it easy too, but at least I'll have a man to be responsible for me and that's enough consolation.

#dreemerforlife

Lol. Big madam like you. Omo, real men that values family and are responsible always have so much to shoulder. It is never easy abeg.

It's not o na why make I just stick to being the woman 😂...

Your girl is loyal ma 😌

That's nice.

Ah, my mummy, yes ma ooo

😂🤣😂🤣😂

You see that statement "He's a man is why some end up taking their lives when they are out of options, men needs assistance, like other other gender too because same blood runs in their veins.
#dreemerforlife

Yes, same blood runs in their veins. We all know it is not easy for anyone.

It took me a while to understand why men get happy with the very little things.. I mean with all that they go through I think truly , they try to make something out of nothing to at least keep them smiling because sometimes everything becomes too much for them

#dreemerforlife

Yes, ooo. It'd be like you gave them the whole world, which is real to them. Doing things like that for them goes a long way to keep them sane because, like you said, things can be too much sometimes.