My childhood friend Simeon Sam once told me
"Mind what you say to a woman"!
Dear men
Women do not understand what you say, they experience what you say. Women receive words completely different from how a man receive words.
What you say to a man is an information what you say to a woman is an experience. A man may understand what he hears but a woman experience what she hears!
The first emotional tool for a man is his eyes, but the first emotional tool for a woman is her ear. Men are moved by what they see but women are moved by what they hear
Words are seed to women, she process them, cultivate them and nurtures them. Words grow in women.
Whatever you say to a woman, she conceive. Women don't only conceive babies, they also conceive words. If you offend a lady by your words you've just impregnated her.
Imagine telling a woman she is "good for nothing" then you apologize to her later. Of course she might forgive, then you will think that settles it. You lied.
No matter how much you apologize, she is already pregnant..
The only solution is to make her lose the pregnancy of the words inside her.
When words offend, it's takes more than words to heal.
Understand that a woman does not only have physical womb, she also has spiritual and emotional womb
A woman doesn't only conceive physically, she also conceive spiritually and emotionally.
If you impregnate a woman what she will give birth to is always bigger. When you deposit a sperm into a woman , she doesn't give birth to sperm. She give birth to something much more bigger. Same vein when you impregnate a woman with just a wrong word, if she doesn't loose the pregnancy expect something much more bigger. If you sow right words into a woman she will give you Something much more bigger.
My advice to you is to take good advantage of a woman's emotional womb. Sow right seeds into her, and you will see the right fruit!
I hope you gain something ☺️
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