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2024 is drawing to close. In the end of year we always remain with mixed type of feelings. Some events happened could be delighful but many could be source of ennui as well. It becomes hard to categorize year in good or bad category because we experience different sorts of event .
For me this year could be called as year of detachment. I got detached from many people. Some detachments might be temporary while some may be permenant. Even I am not sure completely which parting away is actually a complete break up rather than a partial distancing.
I got separated from my friends i.e my university mates who were source of my smile. I have to part ways with a most special person of my life. These were those with whom I never wanted to separate but we do not have everything in our hand. Some decisions are taken by destiny and we are just brought to them.
Just now when I was suffering some ennui after looking back at events of this year, I realized that it is always good to cherish those whom and what you have. Those who got detached could be valuable but one who are with you are highly valuable. We must not devalue them.
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The friendship between a boy and a girl is always doubted. People always look them with suspicious sights ,rumouring different false things about them. But some bonds actually go beyond the basic biologics. They possess mutual respect like real siblings, affection like a caring mate and frankness like a bruhh. The gender discrimination diminishes between them .
The friendship is always easy because you don’t have to pretend much or obey formalities in it. You just have to be a natural version of you. Although your friend might be having a female sex but for you,she will always be a he no matter how much time she tells you about her gender.Lolz
When I am describing characteristics of such a bond and person, a real life personality is coming into mind. She always reminds me of animals. Yeah she does. Her features relate her to animals more as she is cute like pandas, caring like kangroos, aggressive like lioness and obviously like animal who is famous for loyalty. Yeah,your guess is right but shh don’t name that animal,she will mind it guys. Although she doesn’t have mind but it is not good to offend her as I have many pending favours from her.
It would have been good if I had mentioned her but she is not here on hive. Whenever I think about my bonding with her,it really gives me a special kind of feelings. She possess amazing , vibrant and energetic personality. In the era when you will find everyone struggling with different sort of anxieties and problems, she will always be cheering. Its been long I know her and I never found her replying in somber tone.
Another characteristic feature she possess is comforting nature. She will never make you feel that she is bothered of you. She will always be full of energy and informal. Neither will she indulge in formalities nor she will suppose others too.
A pure soul. Who keeps audacity to say wrong to wrong. And who is good enough to spread positivity,compassion,goodness and love.
A talented bud who can rock in the field she keeps expertise. Who is teemed with plenty of innovative ideas and who always uses her creativity for something exceptional.
A good listener, everytime I wanna blather or I am sad. I just drop text to her and she will be available not for minutes but for hours. A girl who sometimes look misogynist as well for the facts she spits about her gender. And that time she actually becomes bruhh.
Its her birthday tomorrow so I will like to use the same blog to send a letter to her.
*“Dear sakhi! On your day, I am waiting for the cake from your side but I will recommend you not to wait for gift from my side coz a ghareeb shakhs I am . But being a future DHAian, don’t your forget to fulfill favour I asked from you. Dear sakhi! Just like a sister, you have always been so caring but as a friend you might have to experience many sarcastic assaults from my side. Obviously I am not sorry for that. Lolz.
Instead of putting in confessions, I will like to extend my wishes only because confessions will make you wade like monkeys. Dear sakhi ! Wish you a happies birthday and I wish that smile always glances on your face, that energy always sustains inside you and that soul always stays fresh like a rose”*
You might also have such a person who becomes a sibling from another mother keeping the tag of friend. Such persons are so precious and those who have them are lucky. Let me know if you you have any and how do you feel with her/him.