The Perfectionist Mentally

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I have always known that I am a perfectionist because that has always reveal itself from my childhood as to how i give attention to details and always like things to be perfect as it should be, and while drawing as an architect or as a fashion designer. My love and attention for details is unmatched but I got to know earlier in life that perfectionists has a whole lot of weaknesses that need to be taken care of.

I am a mix of both Choleric and Melancholy (I really can't tell which has a greater percentage over the other because i exhibit both evenly) and with this alone you can imagine my personality type in exhibiting things but thanks to God, the weaknesses in this personality type has been avessgely being dealt with through the hands God used to raise me.

My recent trip to the federal Capital Territory of Nigeria commonly known as Abuja (which is equally where i based but have been away for schooling) made me realise how much I can appreciate details of things perfectly fused together.

I just graduated but still on projects from the department of architecture, with the level to which I must give the course attention, I just can't do it alongside with fashion design. So I do follow some caterers for job and that's what took me to this particular event centre and the decorator really blew my mind with their flower mix and arrangement.

Unconsciously, I began to move from table to table looking at the way those flowers were brought together perfectly fitted to one another. There's this uncontrollable smile I do have whenever I find something that appeals my soul. Then this thought came to my mind asking 'how much more can this be perfect?'

Are you a perfectionist, how do you feel when you see things perfectly done? Lets have it discussed.

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perfectionism does have its advantages but it doesn't give room for compromise. Life is full of ups and downs, sometimes we might not be able to get things done the way we want.

It is quite difficult for someone who claim to be a perfectionist to be able to converse with others on the social sphere.

A Perfectionist tends to be quick to criticize errors when spotted due to their uncontrollable urge to make things perfect, which make it difficult to engage in constructive criticism due to their narrow fixated perspective which deprives them of the inability to view the perspective of both sides.

So the answer is No, I'm not a perfectionist, though I prefer things to be perfect but I do not make it a personality.

Fair point. No part of human nature is without weaknesses, and once we admit that, it's very important to begin to trust God for help in such areas. Perfectionist are known to be critics and unappreciative, this is a known fact, but it's now left for individuals to allow God to help them shape their reality, where how they see things are reform as God would.

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