Hahaha when I sit back some days and remember some incident I can't help but laugh.Most times the things we are afraid of may eventually turn out to be positive.After my second child I decided I was going to stay for three more years before embarking on that journey because things were not really ok with us as at then ,we were not financially stable and I never wanted to put pressure on my husband so I decided to stay for that number of years
I resorted to using natural birth control instead but guess what? It failed me wholfly. On that faithful day I remember my husband asking " babe pls can you come and help the son of man out?" and I responded on what nah? no wahala as long as it is what I can handle and my husband bursted into laughter and replied" It is what you can handle" , the next thing I heard was "abeg come inside room ,come carry this thing for me"(using pigin English).
I quickly rushed into the room innocently only to be grabbed by this man and 🤔 the unexpected happened. I was still seeing my menstrual flow after then but three months later I observed my body was changing but then I was not sure I was pregnant because I just finished my menstrual flow for that month but then I hear stories of women conceiving and still see their menstrual flow but I never had such experience in my previous pregnancies.
I went and told my husband and he laughed seriously and said " what will make you think you are pregnant when you have been seeing your monthly flow for the past three months" but I kept on telling him that I was observing some changes in my body and that I understood my body system, so he agreed that I should go for a test in the hospital and I went. I arrived the hospital, did the test and was asked to wait and collect the report, immediately the report was brought out and given to me ,I refused to open because my heart was beating so fast , so I took the report straight home to give to my husband and when I got home my husband asked what was thee result.
I told him that I did not know the result because I refused to open it, he laughed and got the report from me and opened.hmmmmmmm🤔 waiting curiously to hear him, my dear friends I saw my husband stirring at me and did not say a word after some few seconds, he laughed and jumped feeling very excited 😊 and said" babe congratulations we are about to welcome a new human in our family", instead of being happy I began to cry seriously and he asked why I was crying and I told him that I was not prepared for all the drama associated with pregnancy and that we had an agreement which I had decided to keep it binding.
To cut the long story short, I was confirmed pregnant and I carried my baby to full term and was delivered of my baby at the set time and the beautiful part of it all is that ,this particular child of mind by name Zoe is the most caring and loving, she wouldn't see you sit quietly and not stop coming to ask you question like" mummy what is wrong with you?.I am so happy that I did not take the wrong decision of aborting the pregnancy.
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