Naughty Children look smart and beautiful in the whole family. They try to use their full Genetic Potential while a Timid Child keeps himself reserved because their parents don't allow them to behave independently.
Present Children are Future Leaders.
Yesterday, I was playing with my nephew when I realized he was a timid boy. After a brief conversation with his parents about parenting Complexity, I came to realize that they were making the following three mistakes in the development of their kids hence timid behavior was very evident in their son's fate.
1. Inoculation of Fears
In Asia, average mothers inoculate fears in their kid's minds about non-existent things. To keep their kids at Home, they commonly frightened them with Night Devil and Day Ghosts. When fears about these things installed in their mind, these kids didn't go into the street and even didn't try to express their genetic potential independently. They are reserved in their traits and become timid.
2. Overprotective Parenting
Whether I was at University or I was at Hostel, I was irritated with the behavior of my fellows who first agreed to join a Club Party but when they contacted their parents, they showed no interest in these events. What happened to them? It was a question that always roamed into my mind. Today I have to discuss here. All these fellows were like running robots programmed by their parents. Either they are going for dinner or they are going for dates, they ask about them from their parents. Their parents instead of allowing them to enjoy themselves freely. They advised them like they should care about their friends, they should not take drinks, they should come early from parties and they should not attend a late party. Seriously these parents existed? Yes, they are present in Asia. It was the main reason timid behavior was their main attribute even when they grew into Adulthood.
3. Installing Socialism Toxicity
Some parents instead of educating their kids about the advantages and disadvantages of Socialism, tried to keep their children away from Mobiles, Laptops, and Tablets. I can remember those childhood days when my father scolded me for playing a videogame on a videogame center. The reason behind this is to install the negative image of socialism. I hate these parents who only make their kids about the Negative aspects of socialism. It has been witnessed that when a kid is socially unaware, his timid character becomes dominant.
Final Thoughts
Whether we are fathers or we are mothers, we should allow our kids to express themselves freely. If we find anything negative then we should educate our kids about it instead of inoculation of Fears and installing Socialism Toxicity. There is the desire of parents that their every kid will be smart and brave but they make them timid by making above three mistakes during their growth. Although all parents are not equal some parents are over-possessive. We need to be friendly parents who shape their kids into Future Leaders. I'm happy to educate my cousin's family about the above parenting Complexity and hope their kid will get rid of timid behavior soon. It was all about parenting, I hope, you have enjoyed my today post. Thanks!
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