Hello my beautiful people of @Motherhood 🤍. Happy weekend ✨, I hope from my heart that all the mommies and daddies are feeling great and that your little ones are even better ☺️.
Again I came to join the initiative raised in this beautiful community where we raise an excellent topic, thus coming to my mind a question: What kind of mother I want to be? 🤔 and I think that as parents we all know the answer to this.
I think it is important to emphasize that being parents is not easy, in any sense and under any circumstances, and it is also true that some people have easier situations than others, but still being responsible for keeping a little person alive and in good condition is not easy at all.
Starting with what has already been mentioned 🤭, we must keep someone else alive, a helpless little person who does not know about life, but do we know, I don't think so, but a little more than them 🤭. Also, we are responsible for teaching them values, whether they are the little or the much we have learned in our lives and have put into practice. Also, to show them how to differentiate between good and bad, to make them good and kind-hearted human beings, at least that is what we hope.
For this reason, day by day we try to give the best of ourselves as parents, to be the best example and teach them the best way, because unfortunately being parents does not come with a manual, we only learn along the way and with the little or much we see from others and especially from our parents.
Particularly since I became a mom, every day I learn more about this great and beautiful task, because just as I teach my daughter, she teaches me. Day by day I give the best of me as a mom and although I am not perfect like every human being, I try to be the best for her, to be that person that she needs in her life to grow as an excellent person.
And that is the mother I want to be; I want to be that mother who supports her daughter in all her decisions without judging or criticizing her, always giving her the best advice. I want to be the friend she needs in her bad times, that before anyone else, I am at the top of the list of people to trust, to be her confidant. I want to be the one she turns to for advice, because she is happy or sad, because she needs support. I want to be the one that with kisses and hugs heals her wounds and above all her heart, the unconditional person, the one that with just a word fills her days with peace.
This is without wanting to exclude the fact of being that mother who teaches, who shows the right direction, who corrects to improve and shows what would be the best option along the way. But mainly I want to be that mother who is present, I do not want to be an absent mother. I want to be in his triumphs and defeats, in his stumbles and see how he gets up, just be there.
The fact of being that mother who is present for me is very important, because among our daily occupations sometimes we forget the simple, how important are those little moments that sometimes we forget. That is why every day I try and put my best to be the mother I want to be and even if it is hard I keep trying, so that in the future I do not regret anything and do not question my journey in this beautiful and chaotic path.
So moms and dads this is the mother I want and struggle to be for my daughter, the one who is, the one who needs and the one who teaches ☺️. See you in a future publication 🤭
I send you a big hug 🤗. .
|| Todo el texto fue redactado por mi persona @chelle0891 || Llevado al inglés mediante DeepL traductor ||
|| Las fotos presentadas fueron tomadas por mi Infinix Hot 12 Play y editadas con Canva e InShot||
|| All text was written by myself @chelle0891 || Translated to English using DeepL translator ||
|| The photos presented were taken by my Infinix Hot 12 Play and edited with Canva and InShot||