Hola a todos,
Les deseo a todos un feliz y bendecido año nuevo, espero que se encuentren bien; Hoy vengo a compartir con ustedes mi participación en esta iniciativa que nos trae la Comunidad Motherhood: "MyParenthood2023: The Good, The Bad & The Lessons".
Hello everyone,
I wish you all a happy and blessed new year, I hope you are well; Today I come to share with you my participation in this initiative brought to us by the Motherhood Community: "MyParenthood2023: The Good, The Bad & The Lessons".
En el 2.023 me estrene como madre, el 19 de octubre nació mi hijo Karlos Daniels, mi primogénito, a quien espere con ansías, durante 9 largos meses, tiempo que pase indagando e investigando, para familiarizarme con la maternidad, pues esa personita que estaba creciendo dentro de mí, necesitaba cuidados especiales, algo que se no sería una tarea sencilla; Todo lo que me dijeron e investigué, no fue suficiente, hubieron muchas cosas, que me toco aprender por mi cuenta, nadie me hablo del temor constante de equivocarme, algo que para mí era frustrante, pues, quería ser la mejor madre del mundo.
In 2. 023 I became a mother for the first time, on October 19 my son Karlos Daniels was born, my first born, whom I waited anxiously for 9 long months, time that I spent investigating and researching, to familiarize myself with motherhood, because that little person that was growing inside of me, needed special care, something that I knew would not be an easy task; Everything I was told and investigated was not enough, there were many things that I had to learn on my own, no one told me about the constant fear of being wrong, something that was frustrating for me, because I wanted to be the best mother in the world.
Las primeras semanas fueron angustiantes, no quería que mi bebe durmiera conmigo, por el miedo, de aplastarlo y asfixiarlo, entonces mientras él dormía plácidamente en su cuna, yo lo vigilaba, ante cualquier movimiento o ruido extraño que hacía, ya lo estaba levantando y él ni se despertaba; Debo contarles que desde recién nacido, ha sido muy dormilón, mucha gente me decía, que los bebes lloraban de noche y dormían en el día, eso no me paso con Karlos, el dormía de día y de noche, pero igual yo no podía hacerlo, sentía que si dejaba de cuidarlo, algo podría pasarle.
The first weeks were distressing, I did not want my baby to sleep with me, for fear of crushing and suffocating him, so while he slept peacefully in his crib, I watched him, any movement or strange noise he made, I was already picking him up and he did not even wake up; I must tell you that since he was a newborn, he has been very sleepy, many people told me that babies cried at night and slept during the day, that did not happen with Karlos, he slept day and night, but I could not do it anyway, I felt that if I stopped taking care of him, something could happen to him.
La maternidad, es sin duda, una de las experiencias más hermosas, que como mujeres podemos vivir, la llegada de un hijo, nos llena de felicidad, pero también hace que nos llenemos de miedo, llegue a pensar, que estaba exagerando mis temores, pero poco a poco fui entendiendo, que estos temores, eran parte del proceso de proteger a mi bebe, ya que me permiten estar alerta ante cualquier situación, que pudiera presentarse.
Motherhood is undoubtedly one of the most beautiful experiences that we as women can live, the arrival of a child fills us with happiness, but it also fills us with fear, I came to think that I was exaggerating my fears, but little by little I understood that these fears were part of the process of protecting my baby, as they allow me to be alert to any situation that may arise.
Estos temores fueron disminuyendo a medida, que podía ver un desarrollo normal en mi hijo, entonces comencé a dormir más, a disfrutar plenamente mi maternidad, amo bañarlo, por cierto le gusta mucho, me agrada amamantarlo y ver como se desespera por su pecho; Me derretí de amor. cuando vi su primera sonrisa, son momentos que generan en mí, un torbellino de emociones.
These fears were diminishing as I could see a normal development in my son, then I began to sleep more, to fully enjoy my motherhood, I love to bathe him, by the way he likes it very much, I like to breastfeed him and see how he is desperate for his breast; I melted with love when I saw his first smile, these are moments that generate in me a whirlwind of emotions.
Ser madre es lo mejor que me ha pasado en la vida, el regalo más hermoso que me ha dado la vida, mi regalito del cielo Dios, lo que sentí al convertirme en madre, es algo que con palabras no puedo explicar; Mi bebe es mi vida, ver su carita, ilumina mis días, me motiva a querer ser mejor persona, a luchar siempre por su bienestar, por darle lo mejor y principalmente a amarlo sin medidas.
Being a mother is the best thing that has happened to me in my life, the most beautiful gift that life has given me, my little gift from God, what I felt when I became a mother, is something that I cannot explain with words; My baby is my life, seeing his little face, lights up my days, motivates me to want to be a better person, to always fight for his welfare, to give him the best and mainly to love him without measures.
Mi vida cambio al convertirme en madre, ya no soy aquella chica caprichosa y testaruda, que antes era; Ahora toda mi vida gira alrededor de mi hijo, mi amor precioso, quien me ha enseñado a ser paciente y tolerante.
My life changed when I became a mother, I am no longer that capricious and stubborn girl I used to be; now my whole life revolves around my son, my precious love, who has taught me to be patient and tolerant.
That's all for now friends, I will be telling you more about my Karlos.
Las Fotografías son de mi Propiedad, la portada fue diseñada en Canva.
The photographs are my property, the cover was designed in Canva.
Translated at DeepL Traductor
