Miranda Blanchard. Editada en Powerpoint
Queridas mamis y papis de Motherhood ¡Feliz y bendecido día!, quiero compartir con ustedes este momento de recreación que pude disfrutar junto a mi pequeña y el cuál se convirtió en un momento de enseñanza.
Muchas veces dejamos de lado estas salidas recreativas por no tener dinero, o por estar muy ocupados con el trabajo y quehaceres del hogar, pero que son bien importantes tener eso espacios ya que sus beneficios son muchísimos. como por ejemplo:
- Relaja
- Aumente el autoestima
- Independencia
- Confianza
Felicidad
Y yo diría que el vinculo familia se fortalece aún más. Por esta razón esta tarde me desocupé temprano y asistí a un actividad organizada por protección social en mi comunidad. Era una oportunidad que mi hija no podía perder y que la llenaría de alegría.
Esta actividad tenían manicure, peinados, pinta caritas, inflables, música y juegos recreativos.
La alegría de mi hija era única, lo primera parada fue pintarse su linda carita para luego pedir le hicieras manicure. Le encanta pintarse las uñas, yo muy poco se lo permito, por eso su cara de alegría era aún mayor.
Miedo vs Deseo
Ya lista el inflable, fuimos pero al ver tantos niños se retracto de subir. Tenia miedo porque saltaban más fuerte que ella y no se quería golpear.
En una oportunidad le dejaron subir con dos más chiquitos, pero como todo niño otros se escabulleron y entraron, lo que provocó que Miranda saliera y llorando.
En este momento comencé a sentir un poco de angustia, pues no quería entrar con otros niños, no quería dejar de llorar y tampoco quería que nos regresáramos a casa.
Nos sentamos y le explicaba que era una actividad para los niños y que sola no la dejarían entrar. Me decía que así no que le deba mucho miedo. Entonces yo le dije, que no le pasaría nada, que por miedo no era justo que se privara de hacer algo que realmente quería. Le expliqué que debía entrar y vencer los miedos y disfrutar. Obviamente su cara era no, no y no. Los organizadores notaron la situación y le permitieron entrar sola con Mateo un amiguito más pequeño que ella.
Se divirtió y se salió. Obviamente quedó con ganas de volver a entrar, pero le dije que no le iban a dejar entrar sola cada vez. Se quedó pensando.
Mateo estaba en la cola con su mamá, ella iba y venia. No le quise decir más nada, solo me quedé sentada observando. Cuando de pronto está con otros niños dentro del inflable, al salir, regresa junto a mi y me dice "Mamá Vencí mi miedo", y con alegría le decía a mis conocidos y otros adultos que había vencido su miedo. Vencer su temor fue lo que la hizo más feliz en este día, regresamos a casa y le decía a la abuela a todos que lo había superado.
Me sentí muy orgullosa de mi hija.
Reflexionando sobre los miedos y nuestro Rol.
Miranda y Mateo
Ellos nos escuchan aunque parece que no, ese pequeña charla que tuve con ella se quedó en su memoria, pero que yo le pidiera que lo hiciera no era suficiente.
Vencer los miedos es una decisión personal, solo ellos, nosotros podemos juntar el coraje de decir lo voy a hacer, aunque tenga miedo, lo intentaré. Por eso la satisfacción y crecimiento personal es aún mayor.
Este día regresamos ambas a casa felices, ella con el sentimiento de haber vencido un miedo y yo con la alegría de haber cumplido un poco mi rol como mamá y darle un consejo que luego la ayudaría a reflexionar y tomar su propia decisión.
Siento que será una de las cosas que cuando sea grande dirá: Mi mamá me invitaba a superar los miedos., y bueno es parte de ser mamá ayudarles y dejarle lecciones que puedan aprovechar el resto de su vida.
Junto a Miranda, mi sobrina Inara, Mateo y su mamá Albanic.
Fotografías de mi propiedad. Equipo Móvil Xiaomi Redmi 9C.
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English Version
Miranda Blanchard. Edited en Powerpoint
Dear mommies and daddies of Motherhood Happy and blessed day!, I want to share with you this moment of recreation that I enjoyed with my little one and which became a teaching moment.
Many times we put aside these recreational outings for not having money, or for being too busy with work and household chores, but they are very important to have these spaces as their benefits are many. such as:
- Relax
- Increase self-esteem
- Independence
- Confidence
Happiness
And I would add that the family bond is strengthened even more. For this reason I left early this afternoon and attended an activity organized by social protection in my community. It was an opportunity that my daughter could not miss and that would fill her with joy.
This activity had manicure, hair styling, face painting, inflatables, music and recreational games.
My daughter's joy was unique, the first stop was to paint her pretty face and then ask for a manicure. She loves to paint her nails, I don't allow her to do it very often, so her joyful face was even greater.
Fear vs Desire
Once the inflatable was ready, we went but when she saw so many children, she decided not to go up. She was afraid because they were jumping harder than her and she didn't want to get hit.
At one point she was allowed to go up with two smaller ones, but like all children, others slipped out and entered, which caused Miranda to come out and cry.
At this moment I began to feel a little anguish, because I didn't want to go in with other children, I didn't want to stop crying and I didn't want us to go back home.
We sat down and I explained to her that it was an activity for the children and that they would not let her in alone. She told me that this was not the way to do it, that she was too scared. Then I told her that nothing would happen to her, that it was not fair that she should be deprived of doing something she really wanted to do because of fear. I explained to her that she should go in and overcome her fears and enjoy herself. Obviously her face was no, no and no. The organizers noticed the situation and allowed her to go in alone with Mateo, a younger friend.
She had fun and left. Obviously she wanted to go back in, but I told her that they were not going to let her go in alone every time. She kept thinking.
Mateo was in line with his mom, she was coming and going. I didn't want to say anything else, I just sat there watching. *When suddenly she was with other children inside the inflatable, when she came out, she came back to me and told me "Mom, I conquered my fear", and with joy she told my acquaintances and other adults that she had conquered her fear. Overcoming her fear was what made her happiest on this day, we returned home and she was telling grandma to everyone that she had overcome it.
I felt very proud of my daughter.
Reflecting on fears and our Role.
Miranda & Mateo
They listen to us even though it seems they don't, that little talk I had with her stayed in her memory, but my asking her to do it was not enough.
Overcoming fears is a personal decision, only they, we can muster the courage to say I will do it, even if I am afraid, I will try. That is why the satisfaction and personal growth is even greater.
That day we both returned home happy, she with the feeling of having conquered a fear and I with the joy of having fulfilled my role as a mom and giving her a piece of advice that would later help her to reflect and make her own decision.
I feel that it will be one of the things that when she grows up she will say: My mom invited me to overcome my fears, and well, it is part of being a mom to help them and leave them lessons that they can take advantage of for the rest of their lives.
Together with Miranda, my niece Inara, Mateo and his mom Albanic.
Photographs of my property. Xiaomi Redmi 9C Mobile Device.
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