Hello, community, today I want to tell you what is happening to me with my son; a few days ago I visited a friend who had a storage room, usually she usually has the light off, since very little enters that room, she just has the furniture near that door so we were talking while Jetter was playing with his toys when suddenly he ran out to where I was and pointed to the door with a silent finger.
The truth scared me, since I did not know what had happened, so as not to create more fear I told my friend to turn on the light to show him that there was no one and that the light was off, he was calm when he saw the light on. Days went by and we were at my house playing, but I went to the kitchen to get him a snack, I heard when he told me mom with fear, when I saw him I pointed to the room again, since I had the light off with my finger making silence.
I am not going to lie to you I was very afraid because I do not like those things I feel fear, however I did not show it to him and I carried him to show him that there was no one just that the light was off; I left the light on so that he would be calm, the next day it was not the light in the room but in the bathroom. I immediately began to tell him that there is no one, that it is just the light off, that he will always be protected by me; even though he is a 2 year old child I feel that he is already beginning to know what fear is. It also happened to me at night, I always left a lamp on, since he sleeps in bed with us, just the bulb was damaged so I had to sleep without the lamp, when it was totally dark he started to cry non-stop, I got scared then I understood that he is afraid of the dark, he does not like to be totally dark.
In conclusion, as a mother we must be very close to them so that when they need us we are there to help them and face their fears, I did not imagine that he could know what fear is because he is only 2 years old, however he showed me that he is afraid of the dark, in fact I even thought something else bad and I started to pray pouring holy water, but it is only the dark. Now I have one more challenge which is to help him to get rid of that fear.
Diseño realizado en canva.
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