Hello, community, I want to talk to you about how nowadays it has become a criticism when we become a mother, this topic is very important for me, since I am a new mother and I live alone in another country and I have received negative comments that have made me feel like a bad mother.
The truth is sad that another mother questions you knowing how difficult motherhood is without having extra help, there are those who are lucky enough to have all their family nearby but I do not have the privilege of having a family member who can take care of my son while I rest, because when we get over tired you feel that the world is coming and you want to run away.
It is hard to live this experience alone because a mother is not born a mother, she is learning from each stage which we think that the first months are the most difficult, but we are wrong; we will always learn something new and it will be more difficult, I do not want to say that it has all been a bad experience, I have had days where I feel happy for the life I have, I am also grateful for the beautiful son I have because even though he is overactive he is an educated and well-behaved child.
On the other hand, it is fundamental not to question other mothers, since we are all learning how to take care of such a small being, it is not just anything, it is a human being that needs all the attention of a person who will be attentive to its needs.
Finally I want to tell you that not all the experiences of a mother are the same, every mother goes through a different process, not because I had a bad experience another mother will have the same, so we should not give negative comments that make a person who is learning feel bad because the truth is that you never stop learning something new.
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