Hola hola mamis y papis de la comunidad, espero que tengan un lindo fin de semana, es un gusto estar de nuevo por acá!! El buen hijo vuelve a casa como dicen por ahi😂 y por supuesto uno siempre tiene algo nuevo que contar sobre los hijos!! Y esta vez en una situacion que me tiene bastante incomoda y molesta!! Y es que desde que empezó Chris el kinder siempre ha sido el mas grande de todos los niveles, y al parecer eso le está pasando factura, los pongo un poco en contexto👇
Hello hello mommies and daddies of the community, I hope you have a nice weekend, it's a pleasure to be here again!!! The good son comes home as they say😂 and of course one always has something new to tell about the children!!! And this time in a situation that has me quite uncomfortable and annoyed!!! And is that since Chris started kindergarten he has always been the biggest of all levels, and apparently that is taking its toll, I put them in context👇
Como les dije antes, el siempre ha sido un niño mas grande que el promedio, y esto en la actualidad le ha traido problemas, y honestamente me siento muy disgustada al respecto y decidí que al proximo inconveniente si voy a hablar con quien toque hablar!
As I told you before, he has always been a bigger than average child, and this has actually brought him problems, and I am very upset about it and decided that the next time I have a problem I will talk to whoever I have to talk to!
Desde que volvieron las maestras y se fueron las suplentes el salón cambio totalmente y los niños volcieron a ser los salvajes que eran antes😂 incluyendo al mio obvio, es que antes con las suplentes siempre se manteniena en actividades y poco se veian corriendo en los pasillos, pero lamentablemente volvieron las maestras de sus reposos medicos y se fueron las suplentes que para mi sin duda eran las mejores 😟 pero bueno!! Chris lleva varias semanas diciendome que hay 2 niños que se meten mucho con el, que le dan golpes y como muchas veces yo le he dicho que en el colegio no se pelea, bueno y en ningun lado, el ha ido aguantando las cosas de los demas, pero hace poco se molestó y le regresó un golpe a uno de los niños. Y este por supuesto se puso a llorar
Since the teachers came back and the substitutes left, the classroom changed completely and the kids went back to being the savages they were before😂 including mine obviously, before with the substitutes they were always kept in activities and little were seen running in the corridors, but unfortunately the teachers came back from their medical rest and the substitutes left who for me were undoubtedly the best 😟 but hey! Chris has been telling me for several weeks that there are 2 boys who pick on him a lot, that they hit him and as I have told him many times that at school there is no fighting, well and nowhere, he has been putting up with the things of others, but recently he got upset and hit one of the boys back. And of course he started to cry.
La mestra sin dudar regaño a Chris y le dijo que no podia comparar su fuerza con la de mos demas, y ahora yo me pregunto ¿Y TIENE QUE AGUANTAR LOS GOLPES DE LOS DEMAS SOLO POR SER MAS GRANDE? pues no me parece, yo no lo regañe por lo que hizo, al contrario. Le dije que no le aguante vaina a nadie, yo no parí pera de boxeo de nadie, honestamente me molesté muchisimo
The teacher without hesitation scolded Chris and told him that he could not compare his strength with that of others, and now I ask myself, does he have to endure the blows of others just because he is bigger? Well, I don't think so, I did not scold him for what he did, on the contrary. I told him not to put up with anyone, I didn't give birth to anyone's boxing pear, honestly I was very upset.
Pero le dije evita las peleas a toda costa, si alguien te da algun golpe le dices a la mestra, pero si continuan y la maestra no hace nada, devuelve el golpe tambien, ya basta de dejarse golpear porque el no debe comparar su fuerza, porque resulta que me dijo "mami yo le dije a la mestra pero ella solo me regaña cuando yo le doy a Adrian pero cuando el me da a mi, no" y obvio yo se que no tengo un angelito 100% pero Chris no es un niño de pelear, es un niño muy amable para golpear tienen que tenerlo al borde 🙃🙃
But I told him to avoid fights at all costs, if someone hits you, tell the teacher, but if they continue and the teacher doesn't do anything, hit back too, enough of getting hit because he shouldn't compare his strength, because it turns out he told me "mommy I told the teacher but she only scolds me when I hit Adrian but when he hits me, no" and obviously I know I don't have a 100% angel but Chris is not a fighting kid, he is a very gentle kid to hit you have to have him on the edge 🙃🙃
Nosotros como padres somos responsables numero 1 de la conducta de nuestros hijos, si ellos en casa solo ven peleas y golpes, lo reperiran en todos lados, Chris no es ese niño, pero por ser grande no voy a permitir que otro niño que si viene con esa conducta me lo agarre de perita!! Siento que este post fue mas un desahogo qye otra cosa😂 pero bueno, mamis y papis que me leen nunca esta de mas cualquier recomendacion que puedan hacerme, o decirme si creen que huce bien o mal en como le dije a Chris que actuara al respecto.
We as parents are responsible number 1 for the behavior of our children, if they only see fights and blows at home, they will reflect it everywhere, Chris is not that child, but for being a big boy I will not allow another child that comes with that behavior to catch me! I feel like this post was more of a vent than anything else😂 but well, moms and dads who read me, it never hurts to give me any recommendations that you can give me, or tell me if you think I was right or wrong in how I told Chris to act in this regard.
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