Hola mamis y papis de la comunidad! Feliz domingo familiar, espero que todo marche genial con su fin de semana!! Por aca super tranquilo, en casa, como de costumbre😂 pero bueno, aprovechando de hacer muchas cosas!
Hello mommies and daddies of the community! Happy family Sunday, I hope everything is going great with your weekend!!!! Over here super quiet, at home, as usual😂 but well, taking advantage of doing many things!
Pero hoy vengo a contarles un poco como van las cosas en mi hermoso y caotico mundo de la maternidad, que para el que no lo sabe, porque no ha tenido hijos, es una montaña rusa de emociones!! Y podemos llegar a querer salir corriendo para estar sola, pero estando solas extrañamos a nuestros hijos, asi de locas son las emociones de una mama😂 pero bueno, creo que en mi caso ha llegado la tempotada de las peleas entre hermanos 🙃
But today I come to tell you a little about how things are going in my beautiful and chaotic world of motherhood, which for those who do not know, because they have not had children, it is a roller coaster of emotions! And we can get to want to run away to be alone, but being alone we miss our children, so crazy are the emotions of a mom😂 but well, I think in my case has come the season of fights between siblings 🙃
Chris y Ema siempre han sido muy unidos, el la AMA y ella a el, andan siempre juntos y el la defiende hasta de mi cuando la regaño jeje PERO cuando de mamá se trata, creo que ha llegado la hora de pelear, y de ese sentimiento que creo que casi todos hemos sentido alguna vez "Mami quiere mas a mi herman@" que a mi!! Cosa que es IMPOSIBLE, y eso solo se confiema cuando tienes tus propios hijos, porque una cosa es pensarlo y sentirlo siendo tu el hijo, y ese sentimiento se esfuma una vez que eres tu el padre!! Porque no hay una forma de amar mas a un hijo que a otro, al menos en mi cabeza no cabe tal locura!! Mis hijos son mi mayor tesoro y mi corazon se estremese de ternura de la misma forma por ambos
Chris and Ema have always been very close, he LOVES her and she LOVES him, they are always together and he even defends her from me when I scold her hehe BUT when it comes to mom, I think it's time to fight, and that feeling that I think almost all of us have felt at some time "Mommy loves my brother" more than my brother! Which is IMPOSSIBLE, and that is only confessed when you have your own children, because it is one thing to think and feel it when you are the child, and that feeling disappears once you are the parent! Because there is no way to love one child more than another, at least in my head there is no room for that madness! My children are my greatest treasure and my heart shudders with tenderness in the same way for both of them.
Ahora, hay algo que si existe y es que como padres podemos sentir mas afinidad por uno, que por otro, y no tiene nada que ver con que si lo quieres mas o no, por ejmplo, mi papá siempre ha sido mas pegado a mi hermano, y es normal, comparten muchos gustos, sobretodo el amor por la musica y todo lo que dependa de ella jeje de hecho todo el sonido que tiene hoy en doa mi hermano, comenzó por un pequeño cajón que le armó mi papá cuando tenia 12 años, y de ahi en adelante ha ido evolucionando, pero siempre con mi papa ahi, con el! Eso no quiere decir que el no me quiera a mi, siemplemente no tenemos tantas cosas en común, y ya!!
Now, there is something that does exist and that is that as parents we can feel more affinity for one, than for another, and it has nothing to do with whether you love him more or not, for example, my dad has always been more attached to my brother, and it is normal, they share many tastes, especially the love for music and everything that depends on it hehe in fact all the sound that my brother has today, started with a small cajon that my dad made for him when he was 12 years old, and from then on it has been evolving, but always with my dad there, with him! That doesn't mean that he doesn't love me, we just don't have so many things in common, and that's it!
Pero Chris ha comenzado a ponerse celoso, y me ha dicho varias veces que si yo amo mas a Ema que a el🙃🙃 y esto es porque obviamente Ema aun toca teta y esta MEGA pegada a mi, una cosa loca, y el ya es mas grande, esta mas independiente, quiere mas tablet que otra cosa, en cambio Ema esta todo el dia encima de mi!! Me ha ticado hablar con el y decirle que mami los ama igual, solo que Ema es mas pequeña y todo lo que les mencioné antes, en el momento el parece entenderlo pero ya luego se le olvida y aparecen otra vez los celos de vez en cuando jeje
But Chris has started to get jealous, and has told me several times that if I love Ema more than him🙃🙃 and this is because obviously Ema still touches the boob and is MEGA glued to me, a crazy thing, and he is already bigger, is more independent, wants more tablet than anything else, instead Ema is all day on me!!! It has been hard for me to talk to him and tell him that mommy loves them the same, only that Ema is smaller and all that I mentioned before, at the moment he seems to understand it but then he forgets it and the jealousy appears again from time to time hehe
No es siempre, gracias a Dios!! Pero si ha tenido sus ataques de celos, asi que me toca explicarle mas seguido que eso no es asi!!
Y como madre debo seguir trabajando en dedicarle el tiempo por igual a ambos, porque el amor sin duda no es mayor por uno que por otro💓💓
It's not always, thank God! But if he has had his bouts of jealousy, so I have to explain to him more often that this is not so!!!!
And as a mother I have to keep working on dedicating time equally to both, because the love is certainly not greater for one than the other💓💓.
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