Money or Family

in #hive-16792210 months ago

Two days ago I turned down a job offer because I couldn’t travel for a week to another city for onboarding. The truth is, I have been searching for a job to add to my current job. While all the job hunting was going on, my sister reached out to request that I helped at her bakery while she’s out if the country. I agreed because none of the jobs had called back.

Just yesterday I got an invitation for onboarding with the company I turned down and now I am super excited and confused on how to break the news to my sister who really needs me to help her while she’s away.

I need to take a decision real fast. I really would love to help my sister, but she is offering half of what this current job is offering to pay and if I am being honest, her offer will most likely be spent on transportation. Another thing to consider os that this is not a full time position as I am only there for a while till she returns, which means that the moment she returns, I might have to start searching for another job.

I am currently trying to get the details of this new job and to determine the work load to see if I can somehow still help out at the bakery without letting go of this job. I am aware of the butnout and the stress I have ahead of me, but it is a sacrifice I am willing to make for family.

So far, today has been quite busy as I have been Google Meet all day. I will take the rest of the week to think about this situation and hopefully my sister will not travel until December so that I can figure things out. What will you do if you were in my case? I’ll be glad to hear your opinions but it’s fine if you can’t leave a comment! Wish me luck 😉

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If the work load is much.
Then look for someone to work at your sister's bakery, while you supervise the person to make sure he/she doesn't mess your reputation.

Helping family is good but in this case you can still help with the above suggestion.
Is not overlooking family,is doing what's best for everyone.

She already has a manager, I will only supervise. And as it is, I’m the only person she trusts to supervise so the situation is quite unique.

Then you can do it.
I don't think is something to worry about.

Yeah. I realized this after giving it enough thought

Alright dear.
Best to you.

Thank you so much for the advice. We will find a way definitely

Alright dear
All the best.

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