There are things I never imagined myself doing because of my nature. Growing up, I was an introvert, and I don't like dealing with crowds to the extent that I don't like visitors. I always found it difficult to mingle with people, and this continued until I came of age. This became a source of concern for my parents because whenever there is an outing, I always prefer to stay back at home. You might be wondering how I cope in school.
During my secondary school days, I had two friends that I walked and talked with; we started together in SS1. This made me comfortable with them, and whenever there is a discussion that involves my other classmates, I do stay silent because I don't want to interact with anyone other than my two friends. I do not isolate myself, nor do I participate in any functions.
As a Christian, it is expected that you join a service unit in the church where you will be serving as a worker. My parents asked me which unit I would love to join in order to overcome my shy nature. I told them I wouldn't join any as I don't want to associate with people, but my parents insisted I join the choir unit. I fought it hard within myself, but I couldn't escape it as per my parents wishes.
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At the end of the argument, I had no choice but to do as my parents said. I joined the choir unit, and gradually I started building my confidence. I did think I couldn't do it because I'd never tried it; this is why it's always said, "Never say never until you try.
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As time went on, I began to get used to it, and gradually I began to socialize with people. I got over myself being shy and began to face the world. I couldn't believe I could do that, and it was a surprise to me because everyone around me was shocked at my transformation. My parents were so happy, and I am too, because I'm now more accommodating and I vibe well with people. Many people that meet me now will see me as an extrovert because that has overridden the introverted me.
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