Hello everyone, you are welcome to my blog, happy weekend to you all.
My weekend is going well and I hope yours is too as well, I already have my weekend planned out since yesterday and now that I am done with chores, I will rest for a bit and step out to plait my hair. I decide to participate in the weekly topic by @galenkp which says which do I prefer between my face or body
Growing up I was a picky eater, I do not eat well, very selective and slow in eating, a bad habit that I got used to up till now even though my dad still complains about it and says that is why I am not fat 😁, this gets to me sometimes but I cannot force it, now that I started eating so well I still haven't added up, this made me realize it's not all about food it is one's nature, not everyone will be fat and not everyone will be slim.
In my society I see people being bullied for being fat and still bullied for being slim, they say "you are slim, you should eat this" "you are slim you should not wear this and that" as if they own my life, Secondary School was worse because I was timid then, peer groups talked down on me, I couldn't do or say anything, then discussing it with families will make it worse,"I told you to be eating very well" that's all they would say, I have come to the conclusion that people will always complain irrespective of how your appearance is, it is left for you to have a high self esteem, be proud of who you are and carry yourself with importance. I would say I prefer face to body, one's body can change anytime, it's unpredictable.
I have been in a relationship where the guy doesn't want to show me off to his friends and families because of my stature, he's always complaining that I should add some flesh, this same guy still says he doesn't like fat women, so confusing of him, well I moved, even friends who try to comment on my stature, I shut them up, I have a calm look but I speak my mind and give everyone their sizes.
On the brighter side I have a good look and I always take care of myself, dress as it appeals to me but not overdressed. Same people who try to bring me down for my slim nature still admire my beautiful face, some crave for my flat tummy and don't want to be slim, well, you can't have it all, they are never satisfied and sometimes don't know what they want. I appreciate my look, my complexion and I never cease to flaunt my beauty everywhere I go. In life just have confidence in yourself and others won't have a choice than to accept you the way you are.
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