Hi, wonderful people of the Weekend Experience Community. This is my entry for week 170 of the initiative created by @galenkp.
Have you witnessed unconditional love before? How did it affect your life?
When some people speak about love and how someone loves them at the beginning, love is drastically withdrawn from the relationship. It gets me amazed. Sometimes you hear that they are parting with each other after a short period. It's as if the love flew away and cannot be traced anywhere, anymore. Could it be that their love is not genuine?
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A lot of people withdraw love from their relationship with their partner because the partner gains weight. A man left his wife because she had added weight. It will be so boring to know that somebody you are with can replace you without thinking about it twice. It could also be so interesting and satisfying to have the assurance that your partner will never replace you, no matter what, that is what I call unconditional love.
I wondered if true or unconditional love exists anywhere in the world today. I tried loving a few times but it doesn't seem to be working. The best love I found is from family, a loving brother who kept that support and was always there for me. I had to compare him with a lot of people I met in the past. He is way better compared with others I have met in the past.
Some people talk about someone who loves them and answers all their requests, irrespective of the good and the bad side they have, irrespective of what they do and how they do it, irrespective of the mistakes and the mentality they have. I never felt the same I just live with people who are strict with their rules and value their time. I learned to think like them.
I have a brother who loves me. He takes care of me. He understands that I can make mistake at any time, so any time I do wrong, he embraces me and give me the chance each time I make a mistake to make the right decision.
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Everyone has their tolerance limit and a boundary meant not to be crossed. I have my boundaries too. If I love you and I notice that you hate someone close to me, I will withdraw the love. I might not hate you or show any attitude of enmity but I will keep my distance from you. I believe that we human beings are people who set boundaries for people who won't come close to us.
We decide want to see, hear, feel, and experience when we are creating a relationship with someone. The more you see those things the more you open your door for them to come closer to you.
I believe my brother has a set of personal rules for which he carries out interaction with people. I believe that he operates within tolerance boundaries.
Though he never reacted as if I had gone beyond the limit before, I didn't even know the limit. That gives me a sense of ever-increasing love. However, we didn't grow up together and I do act according to my background training. Yet, I feel loved and appreciated. That's what I call unconditional love, I have not witnessed love from anyone beyond this.
He tries to make me feel comfortable at every point in time. He gives me the possible best he can. This gives me the confidence that someone cares about me. I have the consciousness that someone is somewhere that I can discuss whatever is bothering me at any moment. I have the boldness to approach him at any time. What a loving heart.
Some people always want to show you love regardless of whatsoever has happened in the past. They don't care about your weakness. I believe that everyone has their weakness. We should love them too. Reciprocating love will make things easier.
Thank you for reading.
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