I want to preference this by saying I’m not necessarily looking for a relationship right now but if I find a girl that I cannot pass up on I will take that opportunity and I’ll run with it… and when I say a girl I cannot pass up on this is what I mean, Understanding appreciation and physical attraction equally represented.. a total of 100 percent attraction, and also bear that in mind that a lady can be 10/10 in the looks area and maybe she cares so much about me, but when there isn’t understanding we can’t operate..
I need to have someone in my life for there to be that understanding and the most important part of it is connection and compatibility… connection is something that cannot be articulated but can only be experienced and when that feeling happens it feels like you’ve known this person all your life besides you just got to know each other minutes ago…
Explaining compatibility is non negotiation, problems occur when you don’t relate with what I want or what you want as someone who is in a relationship.. How cool are you when I object to the meal on the table regardless of whether you like it or not, so I prefer having someone that I can flow with daily.. but lastly it’s chemistry, difficult to build but an essential part of building a bond over time.
I was deeply afraid to show affection , I felt that there was a huge gap between her reciprocating it back to me and that is not okay.. you have to understand the person, even if it’s on a relationship or friendship.. I have to have a girl that connects with me and appreciate and also love me for the way I am and I do that likewise..
Then this is a huge one, and that is Physical attraction… I’m a physically attractive person and I try to look after my self and I would want someone who takes care of herself as well.. but this is slightly negligible, it’s subjective to everyone and I love women a good looking one.. But looks only get you 10 percent of the margin, staying respectful as a man or a woman and understanding is huge..
“Whats your opinion on this, Do you have certain objection in dating?” Have you been in a relationship where you aren’t cared for or your opinion don’t matter?” Two people have to manifest love before being in love, these are just my area of concern which differs through..
I’m trying so hard to work and also be active here, I will try to be more active… Thank you for reading and thanks to everyone supporting..
Happy weekend.
