Hi amazing members of weekend experience 😊its my first tone posting here
Moments of conflict between personal choices and parental expectations are common in many families, mine was education and career paths. Growing up I always wanted to be an Accountant I always admired the way they dress,the way they are highly respected and all but on the other hand my parents wanted me to study Nursing or Medicine they just wanted me to be in the medical field.
In my fathers family they were a lot of successful nurses ,It was already becoming a culture for all the females in the family to study nursing.Nursing is often viewed as a noble profession, associated with care, compassion, and a high demand for jobs. My parents had hopes and dreams of me becoming a nurse due to the perceived stability and respect that comes with the profession. They envisioned me donning scrubs, making a difference in people’s lives, and enjoying a steady income.
On the other hand, I had my own aspirations and interests that lead me to choose a different path, which is “Accounting” I had a passion for Accounting ,enjoyed problem-solving, and I see a future in the business world. Accounting can also offer a different kind of stability and respect, with many opportunities for advancement and a clear career trajectory.
When I expressed my desire to study accounting instead of nursing, it created a conflict. My Parents reacted with disappointment, frustration and anger. They questioned my decision, wondering why I choose a path that seems less noble or less secure in their eyes. It lead to heated discussions, where I felt misunderstood and My parents felt their expectations are being disregarded.
I felt guilty for disappointing my parents, leading to internal conflict about my own desires versus my parents expectations. I questioned my choices and wonder if I was making a mistake by not following the path my parents envisioned for me. It created a rift in the relationship, where I felt isolated in my decision
In navigating this conflict, Our communication became crucial. I needed to articulate my reasons for choosing accounting, emphasizing my passion for the subject and my career goals. I shared my research about the accounting profession, including job prospects, potential earnings, and the impact I hope to make in the business world.
This moments of conflict between personal choices and my parents expectations was really challenging, but they were also an opportunity for growth. They lead to deeper conversations about values, aspirations, and the importance of supporting one another, even when paths diverge. In the end my parents and I came to a better understanding and they were able to understand my own choice of the field of study and we emerged from these conflicts with a stronger bond and a greater appreciation for each other and now I’m a very proud potential Accountant.