No one has gone far in life by comparing his/ her self to another. We are all created for different purposes, we posesss different abilities that makes us unique from one another.
Compare yourself with who you used to be and you will glow and grow. But compare yourself with others and you will throw your growth. ‘See your mate’ is the biggest illusion on Earth, Nobody is on the same journey. You are on a personal journey, not a group one.
The life we live in is not always balance, the way you are wishing to be like others, is the way others are wishing to be like you. Just be happy with the way you are, work and hope for a bright future, keep your head up and have faith, believe in yourself.
Thank you.