Life gives you what you deserve and make of it, not what others think should be for you.
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Even if everyone decides not to like you, as long as you are in love with yourself, you will definitely be fine. Even when everyone seems to like you and yet you are not still in love with yourself, you feel not okay and unfulfilled. The power of self-love can be compared to none.
Lack of self-love is the most reason why celebrities commit suicide and ruin their lives, even when they are liked by millions of people known as their fans. This celebrities all have the love of their so called fans but self-love is lacking. And when you feel that this celebrities are living their best life because they are loved by others, but the actual reality is that they are dying of serious loneliness because they are not in love with themselves at the moment.
No matter what, self-love is everything. Never allow the belief of others deny you of your own self-love. Although most people still find it hard to differentiate between self-love, pride and arrogance, sometimes we even perceive low self-esteem as humility.
Being humble does not mean you see yourself less. Humility comes when you don't see yourself more better, but you see yourself as powerful and more unique when you think of yourself, your thoughts are always positive.
Self-love can never be destructive to you, it is when you take it took far to the level of pride and arrogance that it becomes harmful.
Love yourself now, no one will do it for you.