A Relational Marriage Most likely stands for The Test of Time.
I would like to say that the Marriage relationship begins with God, also deposited the need for relationships in the very fiber of human nature.
The relationship can be likened to a significant connection or similarity between two individuals. It's significant because the two partners invariably affect and influence each other in remarkable ways. Be prepared to either be significantly influenced by your spouse or, better, stay off from getting married.
People who are married aren't supposed to be seen living independently. My reason is that marriage as sweet as it sounds; if I liken it to a football game, it's not a bad idea.
But then, it's not the regular Chelsea and Manchester football type; the difference here is that you're not playing against each other but for one another; a goal scored by one is glory for two.
It's an institution that is obviously gonna be bringing in two unfamiliar adults together with the aspiration of knitting them to become an inseparable entity. Switching off the ability to stay without one another.
This literally means that marriages will drive us to ease if we start up as teammates.
Inside the marriage, at first, it gonna be you and your spouse, and soon, children will definitely be a part of it. When one is going to fix breakfast, the other is supposed to help get the children ready for school. All this will be easier if you both see it to be a game of one team playing with each other's interests as you begin.
The spirit of teamwork has unique ways of improving marriages, bringing you and your spouse closer together, lightening your loads as well as enhancing your love life. In the absence of self-married, team spirit is required.
With teamwork in marriage, anything is achievable as long as the mind is in agreement.
Always give 100% together. A relationship consists of 50% of everyone involved. However, it doesn't always have to be split evenly.
At a time when your partner is down and unable to contribute their usual share, you're expected to step up and play in a dual capacity just to keep the lovely boat sailing. It's one of those times you'll be needed most, don't seem unreachable.
Give it to her if you notice that she's good at finance; she should be in charge of the budgeting process. It shouldn't be about who's earning a large amount. If he's better at planning, allow him to map out family devotions, vacations, and others.
Tasks and responsibilities should not fall on a particular shoulder always it's about having a balance, not competitors, and this can be achieved effortlessly through collective efforts. You're all the time expected to work together, communicate openly, and be physically, Emotionally, psychologically, financially,, and spiritually present in your marriage.
Both partners should contribute their own quarters ensuring that the marriage works. If you notice that anything is going wrong, that's not a time to play the blame games. Remember always to accept each other's flaws, strengths, and weaknesses, including other things that jointly make them unique, as we're not flawless.
Make it a habit to have each other's back, irrespective of how intense the situation may appear to be. Every problem is solvable in the school of wisdom, where knowledge and understanding are students, and there's a willingness to learn and be corrected (Teachable).
Learn to celebrate each other's victory; you shouldn't feel threatened. Be ready to stand up for each other willingly as difficult times are inevitable. Sometimes your life partner could become ill, don't neglect them, and don't run away no matter the cause! It could have been you.
Together we stand, divided we fall is a slogan for unity. And experiences added that when couples stand with each other in moments of sickness, the sick often get over it. Remember always that the essence of teamwork in your marriage is about success, not failure.
Aim for that 100% together daily, even when you're unable sometimes, and continue to support each other through every step of the way as you had earlier determined to be there whenever possible.
While on the course of money in this institution, don't forget in a hurry that money earned by any spouse belongs to the family because you're married and you both become a unit; the vocabulary of "my money" should change to "our money".
Be willing to contribute your resources for effective family management.
The idea that "two are better than one" holds true since working together yields better results. There are no biblical references to husbands or wives providing for the family alone. Instead, couples should couples everything, including their money, to support the household.
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