Money inside marriage institution.
Greetings of the day, to you all beautiful people across the globe.
Let's talk about money in a marital relationship.
It's noted that about 30% of marriages are breaking apart simply because there wasn't a laid structure on money at the initial stage.
Salary differences shouldn't be allowed to come between what couples share. My opinion though.
This is because I think you must find out on time how your partner thinks when it comes to money.
God bless those of you whose partner you know has the mindset of 100% providing financially.
Some people don't have that mindset, the reason being that it's possible they grew up in a home where the mother is contributing financially and a father is contributing as well.
And to those who don't contribute at all, they'll likely come across a question like "What do you bring to the table" which literally may mean money, forgetting totally about other nice attributes that exist in their spouses.
Endeavor to set expectations together when it comes to relationships and money, as unmet expectations can cause a lot of misunderstanding moments.
Money and marriages, I think should go hand in hand, I mean getting to that common ground where both of you will understand that one would say, hey dear you know what, I'm gonna be taking charge of this and that, reasons being that some people have the mindset of not bringing anything at all.
Obviously, I think in this institution there are roles for both genders. Nobody should sell his or her birthright. Allow her to be your wife, your soulmate, your support system; she's your assistance. To the other gender, help him be an outstanding provider, and help him in all necessary ways to fulfill this divine assignment.
In this course, I learned that a goal for one is glory for two. Do have a Godly and lovely home.
Cheers!!
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