Childhood is a stage in life that needs diligence to be well-groomed else one can live a regrettable life. As a growing child, the elders advise that one should have their kind of heart because they tend to have a forgiving heart; however, their silence does not mean they completely forget how you made them feel. This is why knowing how well you treat a child, irrespective of your relationship with the child. Notably, as a parent, guardian, uncle, aunt, teacher, or elder, we create memories in the mind of a child in how much we treat them, this why positive nurturing is important. In this article, I will highlight some tips on how to treat children to build their growth and happiness.
Why we need to treat children positively:
The life of a child is pure and teachable to learn flexibly; the way they are treated can cause an unforgettable emotional and psychological effect that can last for life. This is why children tend to know their parents first before any other, because the parents build a sense of security, and encourage healthy social interactions with them. So, to be relevant in society, we have the responsibility of offering positive treatment to the children that build their self-esteem.
Tips for Treating Children with Respect and Kindness
Show Unconditional Love and Support
Aside from the parents, we can express our love and support to the children we see around our vicinity. This creates an environment for children to share deep secrets they are struggling or achieving. Also, showing love to them makes them feel valued, not minding their background, behavior, setbacks, or achievements.Be A Good Listener
One of the gifts children have is the ability to talk; they always want to be heard. So, build a listening habit. Spend time listening to children when they speak and at the same time validate their feelings. This listening capacity can help you discern the capacity of every child in your closet.
Encourage and Praise Efforts, Not Just Outcomes
To boost the confidence of a child, praise them when they work hard to achieve a task. Do not mind the result, because they may not look perfect but it can be corrected with love. Doing so teaches one how to preserve in building a child.Set Clear Boundaries with Empathy
While pampering a child, be mindful of the boundaries else you will lose the child to the world. Set a principle (your likes and dislikes) that the children tend to know. Know when to discipline them when they break the rules, and at the same time explain why disciplining them when they fault.Be a Positive Role Model
Children are very observant so be mindful of the life you live. Apply the life you teach them and not the other way around. For basic norms - demonstrate how to be kind to people, respect elders, empathize in interactions with others, handle conflicts and stress healthily, etc.Spend Quality Time Together
To the parents and guardians, children need attention. If you do not want to give them attention, do not think of getting a child till you are ready. Reducing social vices in society begins from the home, therefore, engage in activities that your children enjoy; this will create a strong bond between you and them. Try to take them out, play games with them, read together, in all, spend quality time with them. It strengthens your relationship and creates cherished memories.
Show Consistent Affection
This era in Africa mustn't repeat the lives of their fathers. Trying to express physical affection, such as hugs and kisses, will help in a child's emotional development. More so, when it is done consistently, it builds love and security.Celebrate Their Uniqueness
Try to be flexible as a parent, encourage their talents, and help them sharpen them by taking them to academies related to their interests. Support their passions and celebrate their individuality
Conclusion
Children are teachable, lovable, and admirable. The way they are treated during this growing stage can be unforgettable, thereby affecting the future. By treating children with love, respect, and kindness, we can boost their confidence and value. We should create a good memory in their mind so that they will appreciate you in the future. Treat them with the care and consideration they deserve, and they will carry those positive experiences with them throughout their lives.
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