There is a knock at the door. Knock at your homepage. Knock at your notification box. Something is pointing out that you need to open it. You clicked on it and... Hello, ladies & gentleman. Your desired one is back again. Let me breathe. Ahhh... I missed this environment, people and their stories. It is good to be back again. Old faces and new ones too. Too many energetic people and one Lucifer. There is a typhoon going on inside me. A cyclone of words is about to embrace you all with lots of goosebumping moments. So before I tell you what I did or what's going on in my mind, let me know what you truly desire. Come on, tell me. Do not panic or hesitate. This is the moment you were all waiting. My journey here stopped due to some personal reasons. When I returned, many of you were absent. I wish and pray, everyone will return soon like me. After all, we are family.
Today, when I decided to write again here, I was thinking the topic on which I should write. I was completely blank in mind. Nothing was in there. My brain cells were giving up and I was feeling upset. I blamed myself only. I just put my phone on the desk and was about to leave the room. Suddenly something popped up in my mind. I felt like my inner one whispered me. It told me not to leave because that's how we run away from problems. We should face our fear, right? I picked up the phone and started typing. The topic is here.
Obsession over things and excuses of giving up.
When we feel obsessive over something, we look after it too much. We care about it. Each and every moment we feel like we need to face every types of consequences to save that thing. But when we start feeling like we are not getting the result as we deserve or desire, we start reacting. Oh trust me, I have seen people changing over small issues. I know you will not trust me but my friends, this is the fact. We always find excuses to run away from our obsession which once took over us.
We love someone or something. This is common. We have a logic that is made up by us. We think that our obsession will make us happy or fall in love just like we do. Sometimes things go according to our plans but sometimes it does not work as we think. Then slowly we try to turn the table. Success ratio of this process is low. Forcing someone or something to obey the rules is not the way you want it. Tragically, you know it very well. In spite of that, you force. This make it more complicated. In the end, we understand that we already lost it. We have to let go. Some let go, others wait for more bad situation.
On the other hand, when you start feeling that your desired obsession is no longer worthy for you, you start neglecting. You totally override your desired dreams and start walking away. This ignorance is not handleable for everyone. Some people will understand while others will find it rude. They will judge you. Your consequences will be questioned. Your words will be marked and your works will be checked properly. Your excuses will be gripped in single hand my friend.
Giving up on something or someone is not that easy. You spend many times and force yourself to feel worthy for it untill one day you understand that everything you did, is a sum of ashes. You better give up at that moment. It’s a suggestion for you. Don't make an excuse of giving up. Be bold, be brave. Just say it. End the story there but do not make a line of excuses. We all have possessions. Agree or disagree but it's true. Some have strong bonds over it but some find it a game. No dear, this is life. Over possessive is not ideal as well as fake excuses are not acceptable too.
That’s all for now my friends. See you soon with another topic to discuss.
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